LD to ALMOST CD?

[Romeo s Juliet]

Hey everyone

me and my SO have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. i ve known him for 3 years, we have met around 8 times throughout this 3 year time period, but the relationship was mainly LD. i was born in Asia, and so is he, but I moved to Australia, at the start of of our friendship for study purposes.

its been 3 years since i moved here, and I have been waiting to receive my permanent residency here, in Australia. i came here for studies, and now i have received permanent residency here i am on top of the world right now and hurrrayy i received the confirmation document this morning. this means that i m moving back to where i am originally from back to ASIA and I will be in the same country as my SO we will be able to meet very often, call often, msg and go on dates. omg i am so so so happy

i m overwhelmed now, this visa took so long to come and i was almost depressed :/ and i have been telling my SO how hard it is and everything, and he has been there for me always when i move back I will not be living with my SO, because he is still in collage, and cant support himself, and lives with his parents. i plan to attend the same collage, not because he is there, but because its cheaper and i can easily complete my studies soon. plus its a great thing that he is there <3

so my question now is how do i handle this? I have gone through so much things here, had seen how hard life can be even though i m 22. I have never really ever lived almost CD with my SO. how to i handle things? I am the emotional girl typee :P and my SO knows this, he knows i panic fast. but still its that we both are so used to being LD, i am the kind of person who loves my freedom, and being LD was hard but i should say that i loved the time off i had for myself and it was great. dont get me wrong, i am so so so excited to be almost CD with him, but its just that i m a bit worried how we both can suddenly accommodate ourselves to living in the same country, nearby when we have lived for 3 years LD.

so my question is how to handle this sudden change? people who have closed the distance, who are closin the distance, and who are in a LD relationship,
how to get used to effectively use the time to strengthen the relationship once it becomes almost CD, and what things should not be done, to piss your SO off? (sorry for being that blunt) :P

cause too much contact and wanting to meet all the time is not good asap we become almost CD right? i mean the relationship needs some time to adjust that is what i think

so how to make that transition easy?
thanks in advance

[Moon]

I realize you're excited and everything, and it might just be me, but I'm having real trouble following what you're saying here. You've finally received permanent residency to AUS, where you were in school, but you are moving back to Asia, where your boyfriend is? Or is he in AUS? Are you excited about getting the permanent residency, but you're moving? Sorry, just trying to figure it out

Anyway, you handle it, that's all. You say he'll be in school, so that should cut down on the time you have together. This is a good thing, you'll find out for sure if what you have is compatible and capable of going long-term. I think everyone who closes the distance has these same feelings, but if you have a good, solid relationship, you'll get over them quickly.

[Romeo s Juliet]

I realize you're excited and everything, and it might just be me, but I'm having real trouble following what you're saying here. You've finally received permanent residency to AUS, where you were in school, but you are moving back to Asia, where your boyfriend is? Or is he in AUS? Are you excited about getting the permanent residency, but you're moving? Sorry, just trying to figure it out

Anyway, you handle it, that's all. You say he'll be in school, so that should cut down on the time you have together. This is a good thing, you'll find out for sure if what you have is compatible and capable of going long-term. I think everyone who closes the distance has these same feelings, but if you have a good, solid relationship, you'll get over them quickly.

sorry for the confusion. Yeah I came to AUS for studies, and wanted to stay here till i get the permenent residency. dont plan to live here at the moment. me and my SO both plan to come here after 3 years, that is why i am moving back to ASIA to be with him i stayed here for this long because the permanent residency in AUS opens alot of options for us in the future, because we both plan to live here in the future