Hello ! My story is huge but I'm gonna try to get it short. I'm from Brazil and I was in a exchange program in the USA for 1 year and a half.
I met my boyfriend in a website, we talked for two weeks and then we decide to meet.
It was amazing ! We got along very well since the first words and we started a relationship on the next day.
My exchange program was about to end, with no chance to change my visa - we start to date exactly 1 month before the program end.
My parents missed me a lot, so I decided to come back home for 6 months and then go back to the US.
We were happy together and he made all the promises that we would be together no matter what.
He asked in me in marriage 1 week before I came back home, so I came back with a ring and very secure about our love.
After 2 weeks, he called me on Skype and said that was not happy anymore. That we were arguing a lot and he was not feeling the same way about us.
We talked a lot and we made a deal that we would make some changes to make things back to normal.
I thought that everything were doing well, until the day that he told me that met some Mexican girl in a website and started to like her - she doesn't know about me.
He keep saying that he loves me, but he is not sure if he still want to date me, and about the marriage there is no way anymore.
I gave him 2 days to think about it and decide if he wants to fight for our relationship or just break up.
I gave him a condition that if he wants to still be with me, he needs to stop talk with this girl.
I still love him too much and I can't let him go, even knowing that I should love myself instead.
I can't sleep and all that I do is cry the whole day. I made a whole plan for my life and now I don't know what to do.
I've lying to people all the time when they ask about my wedding plans, I keep saying that everything is all right.
I'm so embarrassed with this situation, I feel so stupid to believe him.
Any advice, would be very helpful ! You guys can ask me anything you want !
Thank you so much and sorry for the long post.
I met my boyfriend in a website, we talked for two weeks and then we decide to meet.
It was amazing ! We got along very well since the first words and we started a relationship on the next day.
My exchange program was about to end, with no chance to change my visa - we start to date exactly 1 month before the program end.
My parents missed me a lot, so I decided to come back home for 6 months and then go back to the US.
We were happy together and he made all the promises that we would be together no matter what.
He asked in me in marriage 1 week before I came back home, so I came back with a ring and very secure about our love.
After 2 weeks, he called me on Skype and said that was not happy anymore. That we were arguing a lot and he was not feeling the same way about us.
We talked a lot and we made a deal that we would make some changes to make things back to normal.
I thought that everything were doing well, until the day that he told me that met some Mexican girl in a website and started to like her - she doesn't know about me.
He keep saying that he loves me, but he is not sure if he still want to date me, and about the marriage there is no way anymore.
I gave him 2 days to think about it and decide if he wants to fight for our relationship or just break up.
I gave him a condition that if he wants to still be with me, he needs to stop talk with this girl.
I still love him too much and I can't let him go, even knowing that I should love myself instead.
I can't sleep and all that I do is cry the whole day. I made a whole plan for my life and now I don't know what to do.
I've lying to people all the time when they ask about my wedding plans, I keep saying that everything is all right.
I'm so embarrassed with this situation, I feel so stupid to believe him.
Any advice, would be very helpful ! You guys can ask me anything you want !
Thank you so much and sorry for the long post.
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