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    How long to settle in?!

    Thanks in advance for reading and hopefully responding!

    So he went away last sat, so just over a week. We argued in our first Skype chat on Thursday. Everyone said be cool, give him space. But apart from one Facebook message a day I have not heard from him. You might have seen my original post.

    How long should I give him to 'settle' - this actually feels like the end to be honest. Or that I am being punished for Skype argument

    Any advice or similar would be great and really appreciated.

    #2
    o___O one facebook message? Hmm, try sending him a message explaining how you're feeling then and see where it goes from there. Communication is key in an LDR.
    Made it official: 12-01-10
    First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
    Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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      #3
      I agree with BlackHalloween for sure, send him a facebook message telling him how you're feeling, and that you would like to skype with him soon or something, see what he says. The time it takes to settle in is different for everyone, not everyone easily adjusts to new surroundings and people, I feel like it could take even a month or so for some people. I understand that he can be really busy, and he might just be overwhelmed (that's how my boyfriend was/is). Could he really still be upset about the argument?
      With not knowing your SO, and not knowing the situation he's in right now, I can't give you much advice. Either way, best wishes, and we're always here to talk (or at least I am... ).
      started dating: 12/08/12
      "i love you": 04/12/13
      el paso: 07/24/13 - 08/05/13
      montreal: 12/13/13 - 01/03/14
      el paso: 01/05/14 - 01/19/14
      montreal: 05/30/14 - 07/27/14
      el paso: 07/27/14 - 08/18/14
      el paso: 12/27/14 - 01/16/15
      el paso: 06/02/15 - 08/17/15
      san antonio: 02/04/16 - 02/08/16
      san antonio/el paso: 06/03/16 - 06/21/16

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