so finally we ended it. i just need to post it somewhere :(

[SoFarAway]

its hard for me to get his reply. what more for phone calls. the thing is he always avoid to talk about this. it has been since few weeks ago. i couldnt get him to tell me whats the problem. so last night i ask him directly whats wrong and thats the answer i get.

thanks btw for your reply

To be brutally honest, I have a feeling that he... Hmmm... How to say this as carefully as possible... But it sounds like that he already might have replaced you. It seems that he is too big of a coward to come forward with a straight answer. I am really really sorry you have to go through with this. Believe me when I say, I know exactly how that feels.

[Schlafmütze]

First of all I want to say I am sorry this is happening to you.
As hard as it might sound at the moment, I think the best thing you can do is to avoid contact with him and move on. Sometimes we try to find excuses to justify the other person's behavior and end up forcing things, staying in unhealthy relationships, wasting our time or ending up being miserable.

Long distance relationships are not made for everybody. Unfortunately at the moment you can't provide him with what he says he needs/wants, not from a long distance. Trying to stay together under such circumstances won't bring any good to the relationship.
So, save yourself from a bigger and more painful heartache in the future. Move on and carry on!

[summerstillhere]

First of all I want to say I am sorry this is happening to you.
As hard as it might sound at the moment, I think the best thing you can do is to avoid contact with him and move on. Sometimes we try to find excuses to justify the other person's behavior and end up forcing things, staying in unhealthy relationships, wasting our time or ending up being miserable.

Long distance relationships are not made for everybody. Unfortunately at the moment you can't provide him with what he says he needs/wants, not from a long distance. Trying to stay together under such circumstances won't bring any good to the relationship.
So, save yourself from a bigger and more painful heartache in the future. Move on and carry on!

thank you for your advice. yes i hv stop contact with him because i cant think of getting more hurt if i still try to reach him
thank you