First impressions? :P

[Romeo s Juliet]

Hi everyone

So, two weeks ago, i moved down from Australia to be with my SO in Asia we closed the distance, but are not living together under one roof because we both are still going to collage, and are dependent on our parents.
its been good, and i have settled in very well i was born here and moved to Australia to study 3 years ago and now i m back in the same country with my SO

he wanted me to meet his family once i am here, and we arranged a meeting for me to meet them at a local book fair. I was so freaking nervous and thinking and worried what would his parents think of me. I think i m pretty likable. but i think i m very shy and socially awkward :P and i have had not much contact with his family before this meeting. i have called his mom to wish her on her birthday long time back, and she was pretty sweet i am friends with his sister on facebook, and she is great, amazing young woman, and i can she says she loves me alot she is awesome thats contact i ve had with his family before this meeting.

so i met them last week at the local book fair, and they seemed all nice. it was his mom, dad and sister. very nice welcoming and warm i was so nervous, but his sister held my hand and she was pretty happy to see me i was overjoyed. it went well, his mom was warm and loving. we had a nice time at the book fair, we had a meal and after that they dropped me home, i was hoping to get public transport, but they were kind enough to drop me almost near my dooestep

it was goood i enjoyed it, and the same day after my SO went home we both relaxed and talked <3 and i asked him soo what does your parents think about meeee? :P he said they said nothing much, and it would take them 3-4 days to tell how they really feel about it
i said ok cool :P

its been 10 days since the meeting and he hasnt told me anything about his family's reaction to having met me. his university started soon, and he got soo busyy, and today he is sick because of a cold, poor soul, and i havent asked him anything about how his family thinks of me because i dnt want to press it at all.

he has met my mom and dad before, and i gave him all the details about how my parents think of him, every detail 100% so he knows just everything what my parents think of him

i dont want to sound like an immature girl who wanna know so bad what they think of me at oncee :P but what they think about me is pretty important for me to know i guess :P i m pretty traditional, and i want to know what they think of me, the good things the bad things everything.
i will wait till he is better and recovered from being sick, and also till his uni work load gets settled in.

so my question is, how should i bring this up? i wanna know exactly what his parents think of me, am i likeable? did they like having met me? the good, the bad and everything
so guys, how should i bring this up? any advice?
thanks in advance

[Rebecka]

If you want to know, just ask him again if they have said anything about you.

But donīt get sad if they havenīt. My parents havenīt really said anything about my bf but I still know that they like him. Donīt think about it so much

[rixue]

Ask him again and if he tells you, great! If not, I wouldn't worry about it. I kept bugging my SO about what his parents thought of me and said they really didn't say much. Though apparently them not saying anything ment they liked me , nothing bad to say XD

[lucybelle]

Say "man I had a great time meeting your parents! Now I can see why you're so much fun, I love them! What did they think of me?"

[lademoiselle]

I know how you feel After I met my SO's parents for the first time, I waited for a couple of days for news of what they made of me until I couldn't take the suspense any more! Turned out they hadn't said much at all to my SO (even when he asked them outright what they thought of me), yet since they're his parents, he could be sure that they liked me. I was kind of disappointed at first, but having spent time with them on several more occasions since, now even I can tell that they're positive in my regard, despite the language barrier. In a nutshell, I really wouldn't worry about it, perhaps your SO's parents aren't the expansive type when it comes to things like this. Even so, I don't think there's any harm in asking your SO once more if it would set your mind at ease

[Romeo s Juliet]

Thanks alot for the replies guys, i think its pretty normal that they would not say much because the day out with them went really really amazing but i guess i still wished they said somthing :P
after seeing you guys' idea on this i think its pretty normal that they would not say much, and there s nothing much to worry about if the day went amazingly great right yes, but i will ask him once again when its a good time
thanks soo much guys

[Romeo s Juliet]

Say "man I had a great time meeting your parents! Now I can see why you're so much fun, I love them! What did they think of me?"

yes thats a great way of getting to know about what they think awesome

[Romeo s Juliet]

I know how you feel After I met my SO's parents for the first time, I waited for a couple of days for news of what they made of me until I couldn't take the suspense any more! Turned out they hadn't said much at all to my SO (even when he asked them outright what they thought of me), yet since they're his parents, he could be sure that they liked me. I was kind of disappointed at first, but having spent time with them on several more occasions since, now even I can tell that they're positive in my regard, despite the language barrier. In a nutshell, I really wouldn't worry about it, perhaps your SO's parents aren't the expansive type when it comes to things like this. Even so, I don't think there's any harm in asking your SO once more if it would set your mind at ease

thats great i feel more confident about the situation after reading what you typed thanks yeah i think i ll ask him just once, to just put my mind at ease. but would definitely not push him

[Romeo s Juliet]

hey guys so just to update on the situation, i started the convo saying i had such a great time that day with your fam and u made me feel so happyv and special :P and he himslef brought the topic up and said his mom and sis has told that i looked so innocent and shy, and they are fine and didnt say much
it made me feel happy :P and now my mind is at ease
thanks so much again guys for the valuable input