By reading many replys it catches my atention that there's quite a few of us right here going through a brake up or has had a recent brake up w their SO's , or are close to braking up, so how many ?
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I am actually not going through a break up, but I was thinking about the same thing for the past couple of days. And it actually makes me really really sad! I feel so sorry about all the horrible relationship stories I read here...
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Hurting...
I've actually noticed that too!! I agree with redapple, it does seem to come in waves here in LFAD. I just broke up with my SO and am seriously aching. Maybe this thread can serve as a form of support for us going through this difficult time! :'( Best of luck to all of those who are still going strong.
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Not breaking up, as far as I know, but there is a massive amount seeming to be having a tough time
I think it's the collage period too. I think a lot of people see it as a change period, even if they're no longer in school. Start of winter months, start of another part of the year... Christmas and new year and summer are the romantic loved up times of year, autumn and January seem to be times of upheaval and renewal...
I don't know. It's just my own personal theory.
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My ex n I broke up in Feb so I feel all of you pain!!! BUT!! You persevere and the pain goes away bc you realize how much better you deserve. And when your ready someone will fall into ur lap and treat each of u like the queens you are!
Personally, Wes and I breaking up was the best thing for me. I shed my antisocial skin, joined dating sites, and dated!! Now I'm in a CD with the most awesome guy ever. But don't tell him I said that...don't need to inflate his ego...lol.
Hang in there ladies! -hugs-"You want for myself
You get me like no one else
I am beautiful with you
I am beautiful with you
Even in the darkest part of me
I am beautiful with you
Make it feel the way it's supposed to be
You're here with me
Just show me this and I'll believe
I am beautiful with you"
-Halestorm
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Redapple and Skye are right. It always seems to happen in waves. Good things here happen in waves too, though. Just like anything else, you have to take the good with the bad. There's a lot of good things on the forum too."I'll hold you in my heart till I can hold you in my arms again."
"It's supposed to be hard! If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard...is what makes it great! -A League of Their Own
Met: August 22, 2010
Made it official: September 17, 2010
Got engaged: January 15, 2012
Our First Visit: November 18, 2010-November 28, 2010
Our Seventh (and Last) Visit: November 10, 2012-November 24, 2012
Got married: November 21, 2012
Big Wedding Date: May 25, 2013
Closed the Distance: June 2, 2013
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However strange it may sound and it does to me a little...Lol... I'm thinking that the season changing from summer to autumn can bring people down & make people more depressed. The thought of winter approaching & once again your all alone! Also I do think it has a lot to do with LDR in general....their not the easiest of relationships to get through when it's warm outside!! So when it's getting colder it seems only natural to crave some companionship/snuggling when it's getting darker earlier than normal......
Does that make any sense.....Lol...
Started Writing - February 2010
First Visit - September 2010
Second Visit - June 2011
Third Visit & His Release Date - February 2012
Our Wedding Day - April 2012
Submitted I-130 Visa Application - July 2012
NOA1 - July 2012
NOA2 - December 2012
Fourth Visit - December 2012
Closing The Distance - Watch this space
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Originally posted by Oldblighty View PostHowever strange it may sound and it does to me a little...Lol... I'm thinking that the season changing from summer to autumn can bring people down & make people more depressed. The thought of winter approaching & once again your all alone! Also I do think it has a lot to do with LDR in general....their not the easiest of relationships to get through when it's warm outside!! So when it's getting colder it seems only natural to crave some companionship/snuggling when it's getting darker earlier than normal......
Does that make any sense.....Lol...
I always get depressed around this time that I'm not with my SO, simply because fall is my favorite season and I've never spent it with him. We've never seen each other during the months of September-December. We've also never seen each other during July.
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Originally posted by eveningsky View PostYes! Look up Seasonal Affective Disorder.
I always get depressed around this time that I'm not with my SO, simply because fall is my favorite season and I've never spent it with him. We've never seen each other during the months of September-December. We've also never seen each other during July.
Started Writing - February 2010
First Visit - September 2010
Second Visit - June 2011
Third Visit & His Release Date - February 2012
Our Wedding Day - April 2012
Submitted I-130 Visa Application - July 2012
NOA1 - July 2012
NOA2 - December 2012
Fourth Visit - December 2012
Closing The Distance - Watch this space
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Broke up 3 weeks ago too. Well, things haven't changed in a year, he couldn't make the decision to close the distance, my patience wore out, so it was a natural outcome I guess.
I am trying to stay positive, and although I do miss him sometimes, and I know I will feel really heartbroken when he comes in November (business), I keep reminding myself that there were not many things to miss.
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