Hello all!!! So my situation isn't really horrible but it does definitely affect me, especially since I'm in a LDR. The situation is that I'm not sure how to deal with not being able to help my SO when she's having a tough day. I know that she appreciates how well I listen and how I try to give construction criticism when she does have a tough day. She'll have a rough day due to work or family or whatnot. All I can do is listen...which I LOVE to do but it's not the same as being able to hold her and kiss her forehead and do everything I can to make her day better. I literally get chest pains when I can't do that for her, breaks my heart sometimes.
Does anyone have any like practice or exercise method or anything that can help with the way I feel? I know it's not a BAD thing to feel this way but it certainly isn't fun for me. I'm definitely not asking for a way to escape my feelings, just a way to cope with not being able to see her.
Thanks for any help guys. I appreciate it immensely.
Does anyone have any like practice or exercise method or anything that can help with the way I feel? I know it's not a BAD thing to feel this way but it certainly isn't fun for me. I'm definitely not asking for a way to escape my feelings, just a way to cope with not being able to see her.
Thanks for any help guys. I appreciate it immensely.
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