We just had a huge fight last night. It was about me making a decision that she didn't think it was good for me. It got so tense that we threw harsh words at each other. After a long fight we started to calm down and work out the solution. We did find a way that met both ends but we weren't able to get rid of the tense and exhausted feeling after such a long fight. And then she told me something like "you either weren't here or make me worse when I'm at my worst". If any of you guys read my previous posts, she has a extremely stressful life that she can hardly get away from it. I'm always there for her, it's just that she got stressed so regularly that out fights often add up with that. after that, she told me that she felt lonely when there is so much happened while she didn't want to mention, she wished I was there with her and said she just want me beside her to hold hands, hugging and relax together. I trust her with everything so I don't think that there is another person involved but it sounds like she getting weakened by the distance and the stress she has. It just breaks my heart thinking that we might not be able to make it until I come home in June. but I tried to calm and reassure that I always want to keep on with her and help her stay strong.
we stopped talking for some minutes now to give her some time. but honestly, this is kinda demoralising. It's not like I want to give up. I feel helpless while she wants a shoulder to lean on, a hand to hold and make her safe. but I realistically can't give her those, not right now. I don't know how to deal with this with at least 6 month ahead of us. I hope she calm down and come back to her senses soon.
we stopped talking for some minutes now to give her some time. but honestly, this is kinda demoralising. It's not like I want to give up. I feel helpless while she wants a shoulder to lean on, a hand to hold and make her safe. but I realistically can't give her those, not right now. I don't know how to deal with this with at least 6 month ahead of us. I hope she calm down and come back to her senses soon.
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