How to help out my friend.

[Sharon Q]

I have a friend of mine whom I've been friends with for almost ever.
We don't really hang out much because of lack of transportation.

He doesnt have many friends.

When he gets a girlfriend he gets attached quickly.

He is in an LDR with this girl, yes they have met, They are only a city apart but neither of them have a car.

When they plan things out it takes a while.

here lately he said she has canceled three times of planned visits to see her friends.

She just canceled thanksgiving with him and his family to spend thanksgiving with her friend and his family.

Now I like this girl and I try to give her the benefit of the doubt.

But it sounds to me ( from the info he has given me ) that she just isnt interested anymore.

I gave him the best advice I could and told him to try talking to her about how he felt and she hasnt responded.

Their only means of communication is facebook so I told him to give it time.

But he is really depressed ( and I would be too if in his shoes )

I feel bad and I want to cheer him up. Anyway I can help?

Or is there any advice you could give my friend biased off of the info here?

[snow_girl]

Sounds like you gave him the best advice really. I don't know how much you can cheer someone up who's gf is being a brat and ditching him for thanksgiving dinner with some other guy....friend or not its a bitchy move.