Afraid to go bored from distance..

[lola]

I am super happy that i have found my boy <3
But after he came to me one month ago and went back i feel super sad. i am trying not to think about our distance and try to do lots of for fun, but in my heart i feel sad every time..

I want to be with him and do million things with him, but i caant becouse of distance..

I am afraid that i will go bored and my feelings will hurt me.. Don't know what to do not to feel soo..

[Mims27]

Hang in there, that feeling will pass. It's always harder after you come down from a visit. We've all been there. Keep yourself busy because if you stay at home while doing nothing and being sad you will go crazy. I know, I did. If he is the one you want to spend your life with, it'll work out and it'll be worth is. You just have to keep telling yourself it WILL happen and it WILL me the person you do a million things with later.

[stephanieaz]

It is always very hard after a visit, I think. When my fiance left, I was really sad for a good month or so. I thought the feeling would never go away, but it did. I still miss him like crazy and wish we were together, but it's not the same. You will eventually start to make plans for another visit, etc. and start feeling better. I can almost guarantee it. Until then, just keep yourself as busy as possible.

[Dezface]

What they said. After a visit, I feel like crap. Can't sleep, can't eat. I just cry. But then gradually it gets better and goes back to normal. And by normal I mean I miss him tons, but I can function and look ahead and not wallow in sadness.

[lola]

Thank you all for advices.. Yes i am trying to be super busy and so on, but it's just some days i go angry and sad super easily..

i hope soon it will go back to normal..

[pretty ll vacant]

Awww, I felt the exact same way when I came home from seeing my Bf. Everything u do reminds you of them and how much you wish they were there with you, trust me we all know this feeling. I don't know how much you'll like these ideas but I find that playing video games and working out occupies a lot of my spare time. I've been staying VERY busy lately and it's making the days fly by.

[Chris516]

I think the title of this thread is a fear at one time, or another, for people in an LDR.