Is it all falling apart...

[lsw5016]

I'm three hours ahead of my SO and I stay up so that we can talk, however, me and my SO haven't talked on the phone in 3 days. We used to talk every night now suddenly he is busy. On top of this he also no longer texts me good night or confides in me about issues, instead says he'll 'sleep it off', and hasn't said "I love you" in a week. Should I ask him if we are still ok or am I over reacting?

[Caitlin2009]

I would ask whats up cause going from talking alot and saying i love you to not calling you or saying anything is very concerning

[5000miles]

I would definitely talk to him. It could all be a misunderstanding and you don't want to put yourself through the hell of wondering forever. Just ask him if things are okay between the two of you because you've felt a distance growing on his part.

Good luck.

[LadyMarchHare]

I can understand the being busy part, but if your SO's stopped talking to you about issues they did before and hasn't expressed any affection in a while, you might want to ask if something's troubling them and be persistent about finding out because it's part of your role to help them be happy and feel comforted and cared about.

[xsomanymilesx]

i agree with everyone here - you need to talk to him so you have peace of mind and know the truth

[lsw5016]

Update: I talked to him and it occurred to me the reason he has not said "I love you" is because he hasn't been alone while talking to me (and he is not really one to show a lot of affection in public, which i understand because I am the same way). But I talked to him and cleared up some of our issues. Thanks for all your help guys.

[Rach321]

That makes total sense! It's really hard to be completely open when you feel like others might be listening. Glad you figured it out!

[braydens24]

I agree with everyone else here. At the very least, bring it up with him and ask him if anything is going on. It couldn't hurt, and it'll solve your problems. Or it should, anyways.