He can't communicate.

[Black_Halloween]

Dan has been seeing his mom's side of the family for the past week and we were lucky that his grandmother had internet. We weren't sure if we would be so lucky when he went to his mom's house but we weren't sure when that'd be. Him not having internet isn't the problem, I understand that he never sees that side of his family and he needs to spend time with them. I encouraged it, actually. That's not the problem. He didn't tell me saturday that he was going to his mom's on sunday and that we might not be able to talk until a few days after christmas. I had to hear this from his other grandmother (the one he lives with) late last night.

Needless to say I cried all night and this morning. I put so much effort into making sure he knows when i'm not going to be online. Now, I get that he does have a lot stress going on and he does forget to tell me things once in a while but it doesn't make it hurt any less. Just a few days ago he told me that he needed to work on telling me things sooner rather than last minute. Looks like he forgot. -_-* He couldn't take two seconds to write me a short message about going to his moms that day? I'd settle for one sentence, even. Just to show that he was thinking about me.

[digitalfever]

Dan has been seeing his mom's side of the family for the past week and we were lucky that his grandmother had internet. We weren't sure if we would be so lucky when he went to his mom's house but we weren't sure when that'd be. Him not having internet isn't the problem, I understand that he never sees that side of his family and he needs to spend time with them. I encouraged it, actually. That's not the problem. He didn't tell me saturday that he was going to his mom's on sunday and that we might not be able to talk until a few days after christmas. I had to hear this from his other grandmother (the one he lives with) late last night.

Needless to say I cried all night and this morning. I put so much effort into making sure he knows when i'm not going to be online. Now, I get that he does have a lot stress going on and he does forget to tell me things once in a while but it doesn't make it hurt any less. Just a few days ago he told me that he needed to work on telling me things sooner rather than last minute. Looks like he forgot. -_-* He couldn't take two seconds to write me a short message about going to his moms that day? I'd settle for one sentence, even. Just to show that he was thinking about me.

I don't know the workings of your relationship but in all honesty it's the holidays. I don't think he did this to upset you. He probably made a fast decision and forgot to tell you. Even in the best relationships it happens. There's nothing you can really do now other than wait until you can talk with him about it and discuss your feelings.

[missmossyoak]

It's a bummer he won't be able to talk because it is Christmas, and of course you want to be with the man you love on Christmas. He should have taken the time to let you know he wasn't gonna be able to talk for a few days. Does he not have a cell phone? But either way, try not to worry about it since there is nothing you can do for the time being. I know that when I worry, things get bad. When he gets home you will be able to tell him how you feel. I know it sucks not being able to talk, Butch and I won't get to talk much this week either. Try not to be too sad, and you can always message me if you need someone to talk to!!

[rubydissolution]

Its otay BH! I'm sure he just forgot. Kinda comes with the male genetics and the holiday season. I'm sure he'll touch base with u as soon as he can. And we will give him hell in the chat when he returns (jk lol). Til then just enjoy your holiday and if you get lonely you know where to find me. *hugs*

[Dezface]

He should have told you but I'm sure it just slipped his mind. Try not to get too down and enjoy your holidays any way

[Black_Halloween]

Thanks ladies, thing is its not just the holidays when this kind of stuff happens. No, he doesn't have a phone at the moment, we mostly communicate through yahoo messenger/facebook at the moment. I've been crying off and on all day and i'm sick (swollen glands, its really painful) so this is just making it worse.

[missmossyoak]

I'm sorry you are sick! I'm sure he will call as soon as he can cause I bet he is missing you like crazy!! Try not to let the sad ruin your Christmas!!