Look.

[Kirschlein]

I met a friend some time ago and she asked me a question, which made me think a bit. No, it is nothing serious, but it is pretty interesting: She asked me if i always want to look good beside him and how i handle it when we go to bed.
Well, you all know that usually, if you are in a CDR and have a date together, you want to look good and impress your girl/boy. So i wondered if you all also care about how you look in front of him/her?
Do you want to look good the whole time?
Do you even care?


To be honest, i am half-half: I care when we go away, because i want him to get an ego-push and be proud to have such a good looking girlfriend.
But when we come home, he can see me how i am, it doesnt matter to me. He also said really often he even likes me more without make up and i still look beautiful.

[NaNi]

My SO never wants me to wear make up. Or she doesn't need it. She loves my skin and apparently when I close my eyes it looks like I'm wearing make up anyway. So that's a plus. Other than that I do want to look nice when we go out. Also to just feel good myself. I know that a lot of people have problems with letting their partner see them in the morning, but I don't. We just feel so comfortable with each other.

[PatricksGirl]

When me and my SO first starting appearing to each other on webcam, I was verrrrrrrrrry cautious about it. I wanted to make sure I looked my absolute best to him. I still try to now as often as I can, but over time he has made me feel pretty comfortable about myself. He tells me I don't need to wear make-up, and that he always thinks I'm beautiful. He's really helped my self-confidence a lot.
But, we've also never been together in person....we meet in a couple weeks and I'm really nervous for when he sees me. I keep thinking, "What if when he first sees me, he doesn't like what he sees?". I feel a lot more comfortable about our meeting more and more, but I still can't help being really nervous...

[LadyMarchHare]

I actually stopped giving a crap, haha. I don't like dressing up because I feel like I'm more open to judgement. The most I wear is eyeliner and I wore lipstick for my SO once only because he asked me to just to see what I looked like with it. I mind about my hair (I am SO VAIN when it comes to my hair and I don't even have a full head) and that I'm covering what I think needs to be, but other than that he gets to deal with his 'lolita' running around in denim pants and tshirts all day every day. Do I ever look like a slob? No, but that's because I choose not to. I think he'd be proud I just bathe every day.

[Kirschlein]

I keep thinking, "What if when he first sees me, he doesn't like what he sees?".

I felt like this too, when we met the first time. I was scared he would hate me because i look ugly or he will push me away. But it was the total opposite! He told me when he went home again and we talked about the week, that he was surprised himself how good looking i am, because i told him the whole time, i don't look the same on the photos. I guess i pretty scared him a lot XD
What i want to tell you is, that you shouldnt care about the look, because he ill love you how you are. You will see :3

[Caitlin2009]

kinda. but to quote her "no matter what you look like or wear i'll always love you, and i love the way you dress"

[Silviar]

I like to look good beside my boyfriend for myself, not for him but because I like to wear things or put on make-up to look good for myself (self-confidence booster). His exact words are, "You're a slamming hottie, you don't need make-up." The only thing he does like is when I put a little eyeliner/eyeshadow on because he's in love with my eyes, and he says it makes him want to look at my eyes more. XD

[vinzter]

It must be love when our SO can look at us at our worst and think we are the most beautiful creatures on earth! My guy, with Abercrombie model worthiness, tells this over 40 woman how beautiful she all the time. He wants to see me, the REAL me, no make up, cellulite, plus size and all. He said he likes to see the real person I am. I still don't buy it, lol, because I don't see it when I look in the mirror. I realized just how amazing and unique he was when one day while talking to him on the phone and explaining my insecurities, he went on a rant about how "some parent's need a manual" and that it was tragic that because I believed the lies that I had been told, I have accepted much less than I deserved in life. He made me go look in a big mirror and through tears made me say to my reflection that I was beautiful. I've NEVER had someone take the time to discover me, inside and out, and even more appreciate the person I am.

[DropkickDisco]

I am DEFINITELY more focused on how I look around him and when we're in public together. when he was here, I constantly asked him how I looked. and finally, one time when I did, he made me sit on his lap, looked me right in the eyes and says "baby, you're beautiful no matter what. no matter what you're wearing, if you have make-up on or not, or how your hair is done; you. are. beautiful." and it really made a difference on how self conscious I was.