So...yeah, lately Alex has been super busy with work and everything. When he wants to blow off steam he typically games with his friends which doesn't leave us with much time to talk.
The other night I talked to him about this because it was making me feel extremely lonely and I finally told him that. His response was he was trying to spend some time apart so we didn't become 'routine' and then 'boring.' He said he thinks about me when he's doing other things, but he just wants to do them so that we'll have something to talk about. This is resulting in 3-4 day gaps where we don't talk at all (sometimes not even including weekends) and me getting very lonely. Then, at the end of his long explanation he said,
"is selfish yes, but we do have lives appart from eachother still ^^;
*kisses* you are still the love of my life."
The next night we spent 2 hours on video chat and had a great time. Last night, however, he got on for about...30 minutes after he'd went and gamed with his friends from when he got off work to when he came on and then after 30 minutes he was tired and wanted to go to sleep. ^^; I was glad to get the time to talk, don't get me wrong, but this boy is great at sending mixed messages. ^^;;
Have y'all ever experienced the like?
The other night I talked to him about this because it was making me feel extremely lonely and I finally told him that. His response was he was trying to spend some time apart so we didn't become 'routine' and then 'boring.' He said he thinks about me when he's doing other things, but he just wants to do them so that we'll have something to talk about. This is resulting in 3-4 day gaps where we don't talk at all (sometimes not even including weekends) and me getting very lonely. Then, at the end of his long explanation he said,
"is selfish yes, but we do have lives appart from eachother still ^^;
*kisses* you are still the love of my life."
The next night we spent 2 hours on video chat and had a great time. Last night, however, he got on for about...30 minutes after he'd went and gamed with his friends from when he got off work to when he came on and then after 30 minutes he was tired and wanted to go to sleep. ^^; I was glad to get the time to talk, don't get me wrong, but this boy is great at sending mixed messages. ^^;;
Have y'all ever experienced the like?
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