what on your SO annoys you?

[Irina_Linn]

his sensitivity!! as i posted in my threads before,he takes everything too close to heart and shows much more emotions than myself.since i was brought up in a family with military dad and very strict mom,i totally dont understand that but well...maybe i am too agressive lol

[Malaga]

When he talks too much and hogs the conversation space. Sometimes I try but can't get a word in and it's rather irritating.
Also how easily he gets impressed with some superficial stuff, and then can't shut up about it. And then it's either the most amazing ever, or a complete waste of time. So dramatic.

These are pretty much the only ones that annoy me when we're together in person. Most annoyances over the distance are just misunderstandings.

[wonderlandless]

He hates to cuddle when he's sleeping! He is a great cuddler when he is awake or when lying in bed, but when he wants to sleep he needs a lot of space. Makes me sad and sometimes drives me up the wall because I love to cuddle when I sleep.

He never plans for the future! I understand his job makes it very difficult for him to plan more than two weeks in advance, but I am a big future planner, and it makes it really hard for me sometimes.

Also, sometimes he can be a little negative about things. This isn't a big issue and he isn't overly negative but sometimes I feel he looks at the negative side of something more than the positive.

And lastly, when he is stressed he tends to internalize and shut down. I know he is naturally a loner and he is not used to have a lot of contact, especially having a serious girlfriend, but I really wish he would talk more about his feelings. He is usually very good about it but sometimes he kind of just shuts down and leaves me scrambling wondering if its me.

But you know, he's worth it... Damnit.

[Moon]

He has absolutely no sense of time, especially if he gets involved in something like a book, TV or web surfing. Hours and hours can pass and he doesn't even realize it, if I hadn't seen him do it so many times, I'd never believe it. Drives me nuts! Also, he's been brought up to not ever show emotion, and he's really good at it Fortunately, I'm not the emotional type either, but he takes it to a whole other level. It's funny because he's actually a really sensitive guy, but he won't talk about emotions or feelings, although at this point, I usually know what he's feeling anyway.

[dizzyupthemeg]

He is literal and logical to a fault. He'll take everything I say literally, and sometimes that's great but sometimes it's horrible. He also isn't much for planning. He doesn't plan anything and just prefers to see where it goes. Most of the time I can deal with that, but when it comes to visits or plans that involve me the last minute thing doesn't work well. He also isn't good with emotions at all. He can hide his like no one I've ever met, and since I am overly emotional we clash on this a lot. He's improving and really making an effort on that though.

[Dziubka]

Sometimes when he tries to tell me something it takes him ages to get to the point
example:
Him: "Today, when I was coming home from uni I met my friend and he - you know John? The one that has an aunt in Canada? She emigrated there in the 70's. He went there last summer and *blablabla*"
10mins later
Me: "ok, but in the end what did he say or do?!"
Him: "oh, right. He said he passed the exam."


Also sometimes he'll say something totally random and when I ask what he's talking about because I can't make it out, it turns out that he had been thinking about [whatever topic] for a while. It just doesn't make sense to me, because I'm not in his head

[SeeRat]

His anger He always gets mad over little things and goes to silent mode for days lol. ANd i hate his silent mode since he just vanishes for 3 or 4 days which makes me feel soo bad

[littlekakau]

His anger He always gets mad over little things and goes to silent mode for days lol. ANd i hate his silent mode since he just vanishes for 3 or 4 days which makes me feel soo bad

I know the feeling of silent mode. I hate it. Mine does when has a problem.

[Fltricia]

He's a procrastinator. And I have to tell him what chores to do when he is home. ( He is home part of the year when his sport is not in season). I have to remind him to make the bed and put his dishes away. He does them though. And when he is stressed he gets quiet. I'm a jabberjaw when I'm stressed.

[jessandeddie21]

Sometimes when he tries to tell me something it takes him ages to get to the point

This always happens to me too! It's so frustrating to try and get the one piece of information without all his extra details

The other thing that bothers me is he has no confidence in himswlf when he is so great and more smart and independent than most people I know. He puts himself down a lot and calls himself stupid, which bothersvme because I know he isn't. And then when he tries to talk to someone even though he knows what he wants to say, he won't because he feels like it's stupid or wrong. I just wish I could help him with his low self confidence

[nomnom_elf]

when he gets his OCD twitches to clean; and makes me feel guilty for not doing stuff to his standard or snaps/ stresses when i try to pitch in and help. Fortunetly this only happens once he runs out of gear.

[pretty ll vacant]

He smacks his food when he chews >.< but I still love him.

[Brieasaurus]

He's not very adventurous. Even when it comes to silly things, he usually doesn't want to steer too far off course of being in the "norm". I need to get a little spunk into him haha.

[Sora1101]

He doesn't like to talk about our future together, he's a go with the flow kind of person so he doesn't see the fun in deciding things about our future like how many kids, where to live, where we'd like to travel, what it'll be like living together, who's going to do what chores, etc.

Although I love when he does play along with me once in a blue moon, it makes me realize he really does want a future with me.

[Chris516]

Let's be honest, our loves are perfect imperfects. That's what makes them special.

I will let you know, when I find something. After six years, I still haven't found anything, that annoys me.