So i talk with my SOs cousin, well i used to cause we had a fight and i know he wont be online anymore... The thing is since i started talking with me he was always flirty and with time i started to have a crush on him i guess but i got over it for a bit before getting jealous and upset when he was out with girls instead of being home... Now that i might not talk to him again i feel very sad and i almost cried :s i dont know why is this happening to me but im gonna miss him, i just want to forget all about him though
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Are you saying that you fell in love with your SO's cousin? While you and your SO are still in a relationship? -
No.. Im not in love with him, i just get attached to people really fast and i dont wanna lose him as a friendOriginally posted by Thoth View PostComment
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If you don't love him and you've argued let him make it up if he wants, but it's probably better you don't talk to him if you have a "Crush" on him, seems to me it would be disruptive to your relationship with your SO
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i had a mini crush on him a year ago now i dont feel anything but im not gonna talk to him ever againOriginally posted by MattDavies86 View PostComment
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So why do you feel bad about not talking to your SO's cousin anymore? You said that you don't talk to him anymore and you don't have any feelings for him, correct?
Being a friend with him will compromise your relationship with your SO, so what's more important?Comment
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I second that. It isn't easy to loose a friend but in this case you've got to set your priorities right. And if it is THAT difficult, there are maybe more feelings involved than you want to admit?Originally posted by Tooki View PostComment
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Originally posted by Tooki View Post
I said im not gonna talk to him anymore, last time we talked was last night. I feel bad cause he was my friend and hes helped me a lot when i had fights with my SO or something was wrong. My SO doesnt mind if were friends, he even said we would talk again maybe.Comment
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Now I'm a little confused about what the actual problem here is?
If you had a fight last night then just talk to him about it and if you were the one who messed up apologize?Comment
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I'm lost as well. What do you actually want to achieve?Originally posted by Kiyama View PostComment
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