There has been a reason why I haven't been around lately. I have been lurking but I haven't really been able to post anything up until now.
My SO and I broke up. She broke up with me, more like. She got mad at me for going out too often and deleted me off of every social networking site possible - except twitter which she would use to indirectly tweet nasty things about me.
At first it really hurt to be honest but I kept in mind something that I was told on here (Hi ThePiedPiper! :P) and I'm done dealing with this nonsense and how she treats me. I really shouldn't have to. So I gathered up as much courage as I could and I have decided to walk away and repair myself. If we truly accept the love that we think we deserve, I need to learn to love myself more because emotional abuse is never okay.
I'm starting to feel better though, I used to be pretty down about it but I have some brilliant friends who let me bother them endlessly and who always remind me just how much positivity there is in my life and how they will always love me therefore I shouldn't focus on her anger or hatred. Can't go anywhere but forward!
Like the few that have recently ended their journeys as well, I will still stay on the forum! I do love this community and I will continue to try give my insight as much as possible. Thank you to everybody who has helped me in the past with my relationship and thank you for everything this community has done for me. So much appreciated!
My SO and I broke up. She broke up with me, more like. She got mad at me for going out too often and deleted me off of every social networking site possible - except twitter which she would use to indirectly tweet nasty things about me.
At first it really hurt to be honest but I kept in mind something that I was told on here (Hi ThePiedPiper! :P) and I'm done dealing with this nonsense and how she treats me. I really shouldn't have to. So I gathered up as much courage as I could and I have decided to walk away and repair myself. If we truly accept the love that we think we deserve, I need to learn to love myself more because emotional abuse is never okay.
I'm starting to feel better though, I used to be pretty down about it but I have some brilliant friends who let me bother them endlessly and who always remind me just how much positivity there is in my life and how they will always love me therefore I shouldn't focus on her anger or hatred. Can't go anywhere but forward!
Like the few that have recently ended their journeys as well, I will still stay on the forum! I do love this community and I will continue to try give my insight as much as possible. Thank you to everybody who has helped me in the past with my relationship and thank you for everything this community has done for me. So much appreciated!
I'm sorry to hear about your break-up, but overall glad to see how you're choosing to deal with it. I can only see good things coming from it, and I'm glad you have a support network there to help you move forward. We're all here for you too, and my inbox is always open. <3
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