He read my texts

[marbear31]

Awww Rugger, I'm glad the therapy seemed to go well. Maybe you both just needed that extra push from an objective presence to feel free to speak your feelings truthfully.

Thinking about you, and thanks for updating! Like Tanja said, what did your SO say?

[Rugger]

I think he was just as nervous as I was. He didn't say a lot after what I confessed. He just said wow and kind of hung his head, especially when the therapist asked why I didn't tell him and I said "I tried but he never wanted to listen". I finally came clean about how the guy who kissed me is the guy I'm close to at work, which is a load off. It means nothing and nothing has gone on ever since. It's not like we've been canoddling behind my SO's back like he wanted to believe. He's a friend and always was just a friend, who had a little too much to drink one night. My SO has plenty of them.

I know he's nothing like my ex, but there are marks made in abusive unhealty situations that will never fade, so when MY started exhibiting behaviors like my ex, i panicked. I don't think he gets why still

I'm kind of glad she's referring me for individual sessions. It's been a long time since I've told anyone else and it felt good. Maybe He can find some way to help my sex drive and the spark will return and my SO and I can get on with our lives.

[ThePiedPiper]

I'm not sure what to say other than I'm glad things seem to be headed in the right direction.

[Moon]

It sounds like a good start, I'm glad for you

[blankita719]

Ditto to what the others said - sending you more hugs. Thank you for letting us know how it's going!

[dragonlady]

glad it going to turn out oke big hug!!!