break up

[august]

so we broke up last night cause theres just so much things that were fucking up our relationship and i want him back so bad, i wanna go back with him but i know all the weight i had on my shoulders will come back and the problems are not gonna fade away. i dont know what to do, i love him too much

[Irina_Linn]

what was the reason for breaking up if i may ask? coz at times people break up over really minor things so i'd like to know that on first place

[august]

what was the reason for breaking up if i may ask? coz at times people break up over really minor things so i'd like to know that on first place

weve never skyped or talked on the phone, nothing, not even texted

[bethyylovee]

weve never skyped or talked on the phone, nothing, not even texted

I'm confused. Where did you guys meet? How do you guys communicate?

[Irina_Linn]

weve never skyped or talked on the phone, nothing, not even texted

umm..did you actually try working on that?

[august]

umm..did you actually try working on that?

obviously but he doesnt want to, we just talk on msn

[sewbama]

For a year you never communicated any way other than msn? And you had other relationship issues? Yea, I think you made the right decision...

[Biddlybiddlybombop]

I think that if he wouldn't even give you his number to text, and you were dating for over a year, he had something big to hide. I know you think you love him, but whatever he's hiding is big enough for him that he's willing to break up rather than admit it.

I'm really sorry you're going through this, but maybe you've had a lucky escape here.

[.:*Shaunna*:.]

Like I said on another post, I think I have been watching way too much Catfish episodes lol but I think you made the right decision if he wasn't willing to work on the communication as in this day and age to not even talk or text on the phone something is definately up. If he tries to get you back be strong, and make sure you tell him what you want and need in a relationship and until that changes/improves your decision remains the same