Hello people, I'm in a trouble to meet my SO. It's not about the money, it's not about not being ready, it's not the actual the distance but it's my family. As soon as I said the word 'girlfriend' my mother actually started laughing because even though I've had many girlfriends in my life, I never wanted to admit it to my family. Nearly 22 years later, I did it for the first time and that was the reaction.
So, You can only imagine what was their reaction when I told her that it was a foreigner and I wanted to visit her in her home country. "oh, do You think we are going to let You to go just like that? Bare in mind, I'm only a 21 years old CHILD "who is she?", "Met her on the Internet? Must be some stupid little girl, crazy, must be hiding things!" oh, let's not talk about their reaction when they found out she was Lithuanian(They don't really have a good reputation in Europe) "She's a whore!" "Oh, they are from Ex Sovietic Union, she must be fucked up, her family will kidnap You" bla bla bla. Yes Mum, I think the first person who's someone will think about messing with is a 6''3 230lbs weightlifter but okay.
My parents would never allow her to be here, in my house and certainly would never let me go to her and they would find a way to know it would be with her that I stayed because they are very controllable.
I'm 21 years old and unfortunately, due to economy issues, I don't have a job plus my parents pay my university and my food(I just wish my parents didn't live 5 minutes away from my university, I've to live with them :\ )
Now, the money for the trip is mine, I earned it on summer and stuff but still, if I do something they don't accept, I'm screwed. What should I do people?
I've fought about flying to London(it's cheap for me and for her and I could slowly transact that amount of money out of my bank account without my parents even noticing) but we could probably only be together for a day or two max, otherwise they would be suspicious.
Thanks.
So, You can only imagine what was their reaction when I told her that it was a foreigner and I wanted to visit her in her home country. "oh, do You think we are going to let You to go just like that? Bare in mind, I'm only a 21 years old CHILD "who is she?", "Met her on the Internet? Must be some stupid little girl, crazy, must be hiding things!" oh, let's not talk about their reaction when they found out she was Lithuanian(They don't really have a good reputation in Europe) "She's a whore!" "Oh, they are from Ex Sovietic Union, she must be fucked up, her family will kidnap You" bla bla bla. Yes Mum, I think the first person who's someone will think about messing with is a 6''3 230lbs weightlifter but okay.
My parents would never allow her to be here, in my house and certainly would never let me go to her and they would find a way to know it would be with her that I stayed because they are very controllable.
I'm 21 years old and unfortunately, due to economy issues, I don't have a job plus my parents pay my university and my food(I just wish my parents didn't live 5 minutes away from my university, I've to live with them :\ )
Now, the money for the trip is mine, I earned it on summer and stuff but still, if I do something they don't accept, I'm screwed. What should I do people?
I've fought about flying to London(it's cheap for me and for her and I could slowly transact that amount of money out of my bank account without my parents even noticing) but we could probably only be together for a day or two max, otherwise they would be suspicious.
Thanks.
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