To Add His Besties on Facebook or Not?

[MadMolly]

Oh yeah I totally agree with you about that - I'm not saying Lunar should post a million photos of her BF and her making out just to spite G. BUT if G snoops around the photos and wall messages, she will only see the fact Lunar is *definitely* with her boyfriend, and G is not with him, and that could give G the push she needs to back off a bit ya know? Plus there's nothing wrong with being proud of the fact other girls like your boyfriend, but he still chooses you!

[Lunar Snow]

(Meant to be posted before MadMolly's reply above, but I was too slow on the draw! )Yikes! Without starting a war, that's a good point, too. I think that, perhaps, what was meant was to think it in my mind, but not act out on it. That's not my sole reason for adding her (in fact, part of what convinced me was that I wanted to make an effort for him...maybe she's like cough syrup...nasty, but necessary?), but it might make me feel a little better knowing that there is a reminder out there that he and I are together (rather than just reminders that she gets to hang out with him). The reminder doesn't have to be me saying it, but can just be sort of an awareness that I exist out there (I'm pretty sure that to a person like G, out of sight is out of mind). This is kind of ancient, but the thing about a girl on both arms is reminding me of that "The Boy is Mine" video with Monica and Brandy (how ancient am I? Well, I'm still young, but I do remember that). On the plus side, I didn't punch G when I met her! Hee hee. I guess I am living in dread of the next time they hang out, as I know it will bug me and am trying to decide if I would sound less petty discussing how I felt about her before then or at the time. Something else I remembered, is that I implied that he had told her about my worries that she was down on our relationship (I said that the night we came back from meeting her) and he was annoyed that I didn't trust him (but...I don't know...it was weird that she had this sudden change of heart literally just before I came). Anyway...that's off-topic, but I am sure I could start a blog about these girls!

[Lunar Snow]

You all are great! I feel like I have a bit of a backing about G now. Makes it easier to stand up to him about it. G does need to back off and this could do the trick, yes. In the past, he said (even the first time I expressed worries about G) that he thought once we met that we would really like each other and that we had so much in common. Well, I tried to talk to her about everything from the colour pink, to teaching, to Muse, etc. and she was very erm...like 7th grade mean girl about it and rather non-descriptive to boot. Instead of admiring that we have some common interests, I hate that she likes some of the same things!

[noodle]

I guess it depends... like most of my bfs friends have added me, but you can still add her I mean cmon its Facebook >_>
Its not like you'll stalk her at her place or somethin