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    Well, It's All Over, But It Was A Good Time...

    Well, guys, after 5 and a half years, last night (May 2), my girlfriend and I finally broke it off.

    We parted on good terms, and we still hope to remain friends after all this.

    I will still try to maintain some sort of presence here, offering advice to those who may need it.

    In the meantime, good luck to everyone else on here!
    National Novel Writing Month Participant- 2010, 2011, 2012
    National Novel Writing Month Winner- 2010, 2011, 2012

    Current Writing Project: Wait Until Next Year

    #2
    wow that's hard.. I'm so sorry I wish I could say something that would help
    Met Online: February 2009
    Feelings grew: January 2011
    First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
    Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
    Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
    Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
    Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
    Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
    Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
    Engaged: 1st of July 2012
    Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
    Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
    Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
    Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
    Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
    Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

    Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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      #3
      I'm sorry to hear about that and after 5 years too Hopefully with time you'll be able to heal and remain friends.
      “The ties that binds us are sometimes impossible to explain. They connect us even after it seems like the ties should be broken. Some bonds defy distance and time and logic; Because some ties are simply… meant to be.” - Grey’s Anatomy


      >Little Box<



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        #4
        i'm so sorry.
        Made it official: 12-01-10
        First visit: 3-29-13/4-09-13
        Closed the distance: 07-31-13

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          #5
          Sorry to hear this

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            #6
            I'm sorry to hear about your break up
            Focus on yourself and also let yourself grieve. It is OK to cry, to be upset and to lean on someone else. Make sure you surround yourself with friends and family :-)

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              #7
              I'm really sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and give yourself time to heal.
              Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein

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                #8
                I'm so sorry to hear this. Take good care of yourself, won't you, and let others be there for you too. I hope you start to feel better soon

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                  #9
                  I'm so sorry Be kind to yourself

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                    #10
                    Ouch, 5 years. ((major hugs)) Good to know it was an amicable breakup but no matter what kind they are, breakups are never easy. Stay strong (as you seemingly appear)!

                    Met: November 19, 2010
                    Tim came to Texas: April 27, 2011
                    Made it official: April 29, 2011
                    Lori went to England: September 21, 2011
                    Mini trip to Paris: September 22, 2011
                    Tim popped the question: September 22, 2011
                    K-1 Visa approved!: May 21, 2012
                    Closed the distance!: July 26, 2012
                    Got married: September 22, 2012

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                      #11
                      the thought of breaking up with my bf, shakes me up badly and i wont say i understand ur situation coz i know the feelings u are going through is unbearable... i can just say that have faith in urself.. and if Lord wants u to be with ur gf then im sure ntn can keep u apart.... praying for u both.........

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                        #12
                        Awww, I'm so sorry hon! As everyone else has said, take care of yourself and take time to heal. Hugs and love
                        "I love thee to the depth, and breadth, and height my soul can reach..." ~Elizabeth Barrett Browning

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                          #13
                          I'm so sorry to hear this. </3 *hugs*

                          "Do I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches."

                          Like a drum, my heart never stops beating for you.

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                            #14
                            *hugs* I hate seeing this for you Stick around definitely I'm so sorry things didn't work out.

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                              #15
                              I am so sorry to hear that Hope you're going ok through what I am sure is a difficult time. Hope everything works out for the best for you
                              ~Shaunna~

                              *Distance isn't an obstacle when it comes to love, but rather a great reminder on just how strong true love can be*


                              We're engaged 2014 - save $$, 2015 - get married, 2016 - make the big move!

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