Hey, everyone. I couldn't sleep, so I thought I would start up another thread. I've been feeling pretty sick for the past two months or so and it has become a lot worse in the past two weeks. Anyway, it's kind of put a damper on the work search or has even put it on hold right now. ...and I haven't really wanted to discuss it with my SO in full. I was feeling pretty miserable about it today...alarmingly so, but someone had the good sense to pry me out of the house and make me go for a walk. That cheered me up a bit. Anyway, my SO and I had planned a movie night tonight and that got mutually nixed/ rescheduled for various, little reasons (me coming home late from the walk and him not being able to get the film, because it was out). I was actually a little disappointed, even though my sadness earlier in the day had made me think I didn't want to do it. Instead, my SO and I talked on the phone, but I just found myself only half listening, feeling miserable about not seeing him (a bad start), and distracted by trying to bring up the G discussion. He said that movie night couldn't be rescheduled for either tomorrow or Saturday, because B is coming into town for her sorority reunion and he thought they might hang out and have drinks or something (so...I also had the realization that he was keeping that information from me earlier in the week, when he completely avoided Friday or Saturday as my movie night suggestions). I felt a bit pouty from my general mood, but I have no reason to mistrust B and I liked her when I met her. ...but then later in the conversation, when I ask him (as politely as I could) if he instigated B and G adding me on Facebook, he not only said that he didn't and he was going to ask me about that (I guess I did jump to conclusions afterall)...but that they must have planned it together and how all four of them have been shooting emails back and fourth. They have been planning for B's sorority reunion (as far as I know, neither of the other girls were a part of the sorority) and all the music for it and stuff...so now it's not only the whole scooby gang, but somehow my SO is involved in an entire party of young women for the weekend??? Here I was saying that I still haven't unpacked my suitcase because I miss him and he was dragging his heels on cleaning his apartment...and suddenly its panic mode for him to tidy for his friends...I know we both need to move on and live our lives, but I feel like that was a little salt in the wound. With the way I was feeling, the nature of his weekend plans was the last thing I wanted to hear/ have sprung on me (because, really...that's what he did)...and so I just wanted to slither off the phone after that and curl up in a ball (he tried to keep me on for a little while, asking...unsuccessfully...what was wrong and turned the subject to my artwork and such, but I wanted to get away by that point). After I got off the phone, I ended up crying and feeling jealous of this gathering and also kind of pathetic, because I am away from all the friends my age right now and still need to find a job...and don't feel well.
I know that was really long. I could use some kind words right now...or some sense...or both.
I know that was really long. I could use some kind words right now...or some sense...or both.
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