It's over

[marbear31]

I'm so sorry, Kiyama! I know things had been going downhill for awhile, but I think it's admirable that you exhausted every option like you did. Honestly, I think your SO was a complete dickhead to you the past few months, and I know his excuses to make it hurt any less, but I'm glad you have room to be yourself now and to not feel worthless like you have the past few months.

I hope you're okay, and if you need to talk at all, I'm here. A beautiful person like yourself should never have to be alone during this, and trust me, you've got LFAD behind you.

[Kiyama]

Thanks so much for all your kind words and support! I'm in a lot of pain right now. Whatever my brain tells me, my heart won't listen at the moment but I have to go through this now

[TwoThree]

I'm so sorry Kyiama

At least you have the knowledge that you gave it your all and can't have any regrets when it comes to this relationship. I hope you take good care of yourself. You deserve to be happy and I know you'll find that happiness with someone else.

[MissButterfly]

I'm really sorry to hear that... I think it's extremely brave that you took the step in the end, even though it hurts and it's hard. I know you can get through this and find someone who will truly make you happy at some point, just keep strong!

[squeeker]

I'm so sorry Sending you lots of virtual hugs right now. You will get through this.

[Karringtyn]

So sorry Hon......

[bethyylovee]

You've got lots of support here!

[Lovebee]

So sorry to hear things have ended. I'm sure there will be better things to come for you, and we are all here for you through the difficult times xx

[Alle1770]

Really sorry to hear this Sending you a bunch of virtual hugs!

[Chris516]

My SO and I broke it off

It was so strange. I had a feeling he was going to do it after his request for space. So at the beginning we talked normally but then we got down to it and he said he doesn't think it'll work for us. It was so strange because he still called me dear and we still get on so well and all but now it's over and I'm heartbroken. I can't believe we came to this point. I was so desparate for this to work and I gave my heart and soul to this relationship. Just to have it fail in the end. We still love each other so much and I still think he's so awesome in so many ways. It hurts. It hurts so badly.

He wants to stay friends but I said I didn't want that because I know I would have kept up the hope that we would start all over but I know I have to leave this behind once and for all.

Thank you lfad for all your support over the time <3
I'll stick around because I met some awesome people here I don't want to loose too.

I am so sorry for you.

I 'think' I know what you are feeling all too well. Because, My fiance has been going back n' forth between telling me to find someone else, to calling me 'honey'. Like you I have been so desperate for it to work, and pouring my heart into the relationship.

The distance may make it easier to get over the hurt.

[RomanticAtHeart]

My SO and I broke it off

It was so strange. I had a feeling he was going to do it after his request for space. So at the beginning we talked normally but then we got down to it and he said he doesn't think it'll work for us. It was so strange because he still called me dear and we still get on so well and all but now it's over and I'm heartbroken. I can't believe we came to this point. I was so desparate for this to work and I gave my heart and soul to this relationship. Just to have it fail in the end. We still love each other so much and I still think he's so awesome in so many ways. It hurts. It hurts so badly.

He wants to stay friends but I said I didn't want that because I know I would have kept up the hope that we would start all over but I know I have to leave this behind once and for all.

Thank you lfad for all your support over the time <3
I'll stick around because I met some awesome people here I don't want to loose too.

First off, I am so sorry to hear it did not work out :/ *gives you hugs*
Second of all, when I read this, it was like reading what I wrote on here exactly word for word a year ago, when my ex-LDR boyfriend said he wanted space, and a week and bit later he said I deserved better, the world, as I was the one putting all the effort into it. I literally also put my heart and soul into the 3 years i was with him and he didn't do anything back. In my eyes and heart all i saw in him was perfection, but i was so blindly in love i could not see his not so perfect ways.

Honestly it will get better! at first there were the nights where i was crying all night, not wanting to get up and could not see my life without him - thinking he would change and come back to me. Then i got out, and told myself i SO deserve way more, like he said. Also he said the same, wanted to be friends after as he was scared of "losing me" and i told him straight no. Because of my attachment to him. The best thing i did was cut ALL contact. About a month later i finally picked up the courage to delete all his messages, his phone number... Everything. A year on - I am happy I am single - but really love it! You get your dependance back so much - and its nice to start looking again

I have had several dates since the split and I never had that before i met my ex. (which he was my first).
YOU will always feel happy in time, and that love will lessen. Seems impossible right now. But time does heal us =)
Good luck in your life sweetie!!

RomanticAtHeart~ <3

[Evaneri65]

No amount of words can make you feel better. Being there more than once i know it hurts. Prayers for you.

[Dezface]

I'm so sorry. Big hugs to you.

[Malaga]

Wow... I'm so sorry to hear that :-/ just hang in there, one day at a time, you know it'll get better, and much better than you could hope for right now. Sending you a big hug xx

[emsimes]

Im so sorry to hear this
I can't even imagine how hard this must be on you.
Just know that we are all here for you if you need anything!