Advice

[KittensPuca]

Hey everyone, so basically i'm supposed to be flying from Ireland to my SO whose in Texas next week, however lately shes seems really distant. Usually at this point before a trip we're both all excited and talking about all the things we'll be doing but this time is completely different, whenever she graces me with a conversation, I get 5 sentences before she's off again. Its gotten to the point where i'm not sure if I even want to go now because i'm unsure if i'll receive this cold reception when i arrive. I get that everyone has their own little problems to deal with but I don't think its very fair to shut me out completely a week before a visit. Anyway, any advice from you lovely people would be very much appreciated!

[Karoshi]

Try talking to her about what's going on... Maybe she has some problems in school/work or she's just not feeling well? Maybe you did something that made her angry and you don't even know? If I was you, I would try it like this: "Darling, it looks like you don't even want me to come, you are so cold now... What's going on? Have I done something wrong?" Good luck.

[temporaryuser]

'hey, you have seemed rather distant lately, is everything ok? You know you can talk to me if something is bothering you. i cant wait to see you next week, but if now isnt a good time for a visit, just let me know"

[JoeyBug]

'hey, you have seemed rather distant lately, is everything ok? You know you can talk to me if something is bothering you. i cant wait to see you next week, but if now isnt a good time for a visit, just let me know"

^^ This, you need to be communicating with her about what's going on and whether she is going through something that is making her distant. Good Luck.

[ThePiedPiper]

'hey, you have seemed rather distant lately, is everything ok? You know you can talk to me if something is bothering you. i cant wait to see you next week, but if now isnt a good time for a visit, just let me know"

^ Yes.