Why would you even say that.

[Louise_B]

The thing is i texted him the morning being genuinely nice i wasnt horrible or nothing ..

And i have heard nothing back. Now my question is, do i just act like nothings happened and text him?

or do i wait for him to contact me IF SO how long so i wait before i say something? the days are really creeping in now

[ThePiedPiper]

The thing is i texted him the morning being genuinely nice i wasnt horrible or nothing ..

And i have heard nothing back. Now my question is, do i just act like nothings happened and text him?

or do i wait for him to contact me IF SO how long so i wait before i say something? the days are really creeping in now

Maybe wait until later then? I dunno. Times before visits are always weird and it doesn't matter whether you've talked about or haven't when you finally see one another.

[Louise_B]

I held up the white flag

I texted him saying lets forget it, and i didnt no wethere it was nervs the made him say that, But whatever, i cant wait to see him and be with him.

His reply was ' i love you '
I'm guessing the nerves got the better of him!!

Thank you everyone for being there for me!

SUPERSTARS!!!!

[leonsfangirl]

Glad he text you back!

I was nervous before i met my now husband and so was he, he actually had a moment in the airport where he thought i hadnt got on the plane and wanted to leave. Luckily his mom convinced him that i wouldnt let him down and made him wait it out. Nerves are such a delightful thing!

It really was nerves with a side insecurity. Have a fantastic time and take lots of pics!!

[Louise_B]

Glad he text you back!

I was nervous before i met my now husband and so was he, he actually had a moment in the airport where he thought i hadnt got on the plane and wanted to leave. Luckily his mom convinced him that i wouldnt let him down and made him wait it out. Nerves are such a delightful thing!

It really was nerves with a side insecurity. Have a fantastic time and take lots of pics!!

Its amazing what goes through peoples heads when they are nervous, I will be taking tonns dont worry videos too

Thank you so much Leonsfangirl

[abna1]

Yay, glad it turned out fine

[Louise_B]

Yay, glad it turned out fine

Haha thank you sweetie Me too!!

[Ejoriah]

I'm glad to hear this

[Louise_B]

I'm glad to hear this

Thanks Hun,

i was going to meessage you on facebook when i finished work because i got no access of facebook on my work computer

[Chris516]

That's pretty fucked up. You really need to talk about how that hurt your feelings. If he has a defeatist attitude of course the relationship won't last!

While I wouldn't have exactly worded it like that. I am +1000000 on the vein of what was said here. Because, He is verbally doing everything to wreck the relationship. It even almost sounds like he wants' the OP to breakup with him, so he can blame her for the breakup.

[Chris516]

I'm at work. Its a sunday so no famous brilliant people are arriving at the hotel so im just sat in the office on here LOL.
I'm leaving him bee and letting him speak to me when his ready (whenever that may be) but how long so i really leave it? 4 days tomorrow.
Yeah i know the flight is booked and stuff but i would like for things to be ok before i went over. :/ Ugh

I so agree with you here. Because, It would be like walking into a a fierce hailstorm, if his attitude was not resolved before the visit.

[rawrimolivia]

I was about to go all out and give you all this advice and was half way through it until I went back and realized it was solved lol! glad it worked out for you (:

[Louise_B]

I so agree with you here. Because, It would be like walking into a a fierce hailstorm, if his attitude was not resolved before the visit.

Thankfully, It was resolved and when i did get home from work i facetimed him and we spoke about the issue, I simply told him he needs to start believing its going to work otherwise it simply wont if he has that attitude, and he agreed and he told me that his attitude stunk and it wont be happening again it was a last minute 'wtf' feeling!

I was about to go all out and give you all this advice and was half way through it until I went back and realized it was solved lol! glad it worked out for you (:

Haha nerves huh? horrible thing! Thank you so much

[srtd35]

I will admit at times especially leading up to the visit or right after...I get that attitude of why the heck am I doing this it is never going to work. Im glad it worked out hopefully things will ge well until you get there. Just keep reassuring him that you love him and that you are on your way!

[Louise_B]

I will admit at times especially leading up to the visit or right after...I get that attitude of why the heck am I doing this it is never going to work. Im glad it worked out hopefully things will ge well until you get there. Just keep reassuring him that you love him and that you are on your way!

Yeah, I’m feeling the exact same but I’m keeping it under the lid so I don’t freak out lol. The last 2 weeks leading up I’ve been thinking ‘is all this even worth it because it if we decide to close the distance am I even ready to leave me country? LOL. Extreme I know but that’s what’s been going through my mind! I have been reassuring so hopefully all is well! His back to work today so we will both be busy leading up to my flight

Ahhhhhh this is actually happening guys!