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    Looking to make some friends that will understand

    I recently had to get back into a LDR again because my BF of 5 yrs had to move back home do to financial situations. I lived with him and his family for 3 years while we both went to college. But we decided we would move into my mom’s house and look for work but soon after he felt like he wasn’t manning up and taking care of me so he left back home to see if he can find work there so he can save up and take care of me. Any ways since he has been gone I find myself very depressed, lonely and sad. I talk to him almost every day but to me it is not the same.

    I just want to make a friend(s) that understand and that can help me get through this with inspiration.
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    Originally posted by loveneverdies View Post
    I recently had to get back into a LDR again because my BF of 5 yrs had to move back home do to financial situations. I lived with him and his family for 3 years while we both went to college. But we decided we would move into my mom’s house and look for work but soon after he felt like he wasn’t manning up and taking care of me so he left back home to see if he can find work there so he can save up and take care of me. Any ways since he has been gone I find myself very depressed, lonely and sad. I talk to him almost every day but to me it is not the same.

    I just want to make a friend(s) that understand and that can help me get through this with inspiration.
    Well, You do have several advantages. That is a shorter distance apart and you live in the same general location. I hate how that sounded. If that sounds like I am trying to give you a guilt trip, that is not my intention. I am trying to give you positive feedback.

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      #3
      Originally posted by loveneverdies View Post
      I recently had to get back into a LDR again because my BF of 5 yrs had to move back home do to financial situations. I lived with him and his family for 3 years while we both went to college. But we decided we would move into my mom’s house and look for work but soon after he felt like he wasn’t manning up and taking care of me so he left back home to see if he can find work there so he can save up and take care of me. Any ways since he has been gone I find myself very depressed, lonely and sad. I talk to him almost every day but to me it is not the same.

      I just want to make a friend(s) that understand and that can help me get through this with inspiration.
      It's hard when you've had to return to LDR - whether it's after a visit or a long time together or just the first time you do it. It takes a lot of time and energy and it's hard to see how it's going to end, which brings about worry and upset and anxiety and all of those things too. All I can suggest to you is to keep the lines of communication open, keep going and come here for support when you need it. You will make it through to the other side and all of us have been where you are right now.

      Good Luck and welcome to LFAD
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      Lost Contact: August 2002
      Reconnected: April 2010
      Together: May 20th 2010





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        #4
        Thank you so much for the positive feedback. I really needed it.

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          #5
          I'm pretty new to the whole LDR thing myself. Me and my BF connected in March. We've been officially together for almost 2 months. I just visited him almost 2 weeks ago. A few days after I left, I was miserable. Very sad and depressed. The people in my life are as supportive as they can be. But they don't truly understand how lonely I am without him. I work and I'm going back to school in the fall. But keeping myself busy only distracts myself a little bit. It's good to have people who understand how I feel. Sometimes I miss him so much I almost can't stand it. But he is so worth it! <3



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            #6
            I am on the same boat as you are. I really dont have any friends I can look to for advice and im new to LFD too but so far it seems cool.

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              #7
              I joined a few weeks ago and so far I'm really liking it. I like feeling like I'm not alone. I'm new to the whole long distance thing. Sometimes it is so frustrating when my family doesn't understand why I'm so lonely. Me and my BF talk, text, facetime all the time, but sometimes all I need is a hug from him. It's so hard but I know I wouldn't be happy with anybody else. That's why this is worth it.



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                #8
                After closing the distance I can't ever imagine having to go back to doing this so I feel your pain!! At least you know if you managed to get through it before you will manage to do it again!! Keep your chin up!

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