He Suddenly plunged a dagger in my heart...some advice?

[Chris516]

Final update: I choose my own destiny

I had a hard time believing that one could fall out of romantic love with someone in the course of one week after 3 years of hardly any disagreements (i could count them on one hand)...but that is what happened in my case...I wasnt loved anymore.

And I don't have time to hang around on what ifs, and maybes. So I decided to put the romantic aspect of us behind me. (I would be afraid of it happening again anyway) I do fear for him though. As anyone who cares about a person would. But after years of putting someone else first, I think its time to do something that is in MY best interest. As in Find a new person worthy of my unconditional love. ^_^

Probably will be the last time you see me, LFAD. I would've waited a lifetime for him, but I don't think I'll seek another ldr again (if i can help it).

I am thinking, that I am in the same position. Not the amount of time one falls out of love. But do think that has happened. I also have a hard time believing this, even though my SO has never said it to me. I still love her with all my heart.