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    Well, all, it looks like I will be leaving you. We ended our LDR over the weekend, I think. He says he needs time to think about it, but I am going to go ahead and close the door for him. If it takes 3 days to decide if you love me enough to continue, then I don't really see a future. I didn't want to give up, but he cant handle the pressure and is afraid that he is hurting me all the time, by not being able to put 100% into the relationship. He says he needs to get his divorce done (not started yet...) so he can feel like he is putting his all into a relationship. It was hard and things are going to be uncomfortable for a bit since we have to see each other at events in the near future, but I'm not going to let him get to me.

    It was so nice to meet all of you, you gave me some really great advice, and I wish you all the best of luck in the future with your relationships, and lives.

    #2
    I'm really sorry to hear this. If you decide not to stick around here, best of luck with moving on xxx

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      #3
      Really sad to hear this You'll be more than welcome back if you feel like returning sometime in the future


      Met online: February 2011
      Met the first time: August 16, 2011

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        #4
        I wish you the best of luck with everything in your life!

        First met: June 2012
        Became Committed: June 04, 2012
        Entered an LDR: July 01, 2012
        Next Visit: October 2013!


        XXX XXX

        Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.

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          #5
          sorry to hear.. give you a big hug!!

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            #6
            That's sad to hear. If you need anyone to talk to we're still here anytime.

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              #7
              I'm sorry to hear this but I understand how you feel about not wanting to be with someone who needs to think about if he wants to be with you. I wish you the best!
              Our love story:
              Attended the same high school 2004-2007
              Dated CD: June 2009-July 2010
              Reconnected: August 2012
              Began dating LD: November 2012
              Engaged! March 2014
              Closing the distance: December 2015

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                #8
                I'm so sorry arrah. I second Alle, you'll be more than welcome back if you feel like returning. Sending my best wishes.

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                  #9
                  I'm sorry it didn't work out. You sound like a very strong woman for handling it this way, and I have no doubt you will be better very soon. Good luck
                  I thought of you and the years and all the sadness fell away from me - Pink Floyd

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                    #10
                    I'm so sorry to hear that. You are always welcome here!
                    "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love " ~ Theodore Seuss Geisel.

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                      #11
                      I'm sorry to hear that, it can't be easy, but remember you don't have to leave here, plenty of friends here I'm sure

                      "Buddha made you for me" - My SO



                      1st Met/Visit: Nov 2012 - Thailand
                      2nd Visit: May 2013 - Thailand
                      3rd Visit: Jun 2013 - Thailand
                      4th Visit: Sep 2013 - Thailand
                      5th Visit: Sep 2013 - Jan 2014 - UK
                      6th Visit: Apr 2014 - Thailand - Marry
                      7th Visit: Sept 14th 2014 - Thailand - Wedding Ceremony / Party
                      Close the distance - Sept 21st 2014 - UK
                      UK Wedding Party: November 8th 2014

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                        #12
                        Sorry to hear this. Best of luck in the future!


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                          #13
                          I'm really sorry to hear this . You're always welcome to stick around here though
                          Met Online: February 2009
                          Feelings grew: January 2011
                          First met in person: 4 April - 16 April 2011
                          Officially together since: 4th of April 2011
                          Second visit: 29 June - 1 August 2011
                          Third visit: 28 September - 15 October 2011
                          Fourth visit: 19 January - 25 February 2012
                          Fifth visit: 24 March - 12 April 2012
                          Sixth visit: 2 June - 7 July 2012
                          Engaged: 1st of July 2012
                          Seventh visit: 27 August - 23 September
                          Visa lodged: 5th of November 2012
                          Eighth visit: 8 December 2012 - 12 January 2013
                          Visa granted: 8th of May 2013
                          Hawaii: 19 May - 2 June 2013
                          Closed the distance: 16th of July 2013

                          Married my Englishman on the 4th of October 2013

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