Suddenly he is very 'snappy' with me?
My boyfriend and I have been together six months (today!
) and things have been going really amazingly until just this past week. We are currently still closed distance, but he is leaving in about 2 months. We get along great and have so much fun together, it's always great to spend time with him. We connect on many levels.
But suddenly, since about I would say this past monday, whenever I text him he'll just be very snappy with me and will make me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'll get out of the blue texts (when I think everything is fine) that say things like "why am I just finding out about this now" (when I've told him before) and "why do you jump to conclusions" (when I asked if I wasn't seeing him today). When I confronted him about being snapy/grumpy he just said "I have no reason to be mad at you. If I was mad at you I wouldn't be texting you." I got the same response each time I brought it up.
This is really out of the ordinary for him. He is a big sweetheard and such a gentleman to me when we are together (in person) and he has never acted this way until about a week ago. We've barely even bickered before this past week. I don't understand what changed, because nothing seems to have. And although throughout the week he's been like this over text, he's all normal in person.
I just need some insight in what you think is going on and maybe some advice on how to properly talk to him about it? Thanks a bunch!
) and things have been going really amazingly until just this past week. We are currently still closed distance, but he is leaving in about 2 months. We get along great and have so much fun together, it's always great to spend time with him. We connect on many levels. But suddenly, since about I would say this past monday, whenever I text him he'll just be very snappy with me and will make me feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'll get out of the blue texts (when I think everything is fine) that say things like "why am I just finding out about this now" (when I've told him before) and "why do you jump to conclusions" (when I asked if I wasn't seeing him today). When I confronted him about being snapy/grumpy he just said "I have no reason to be mad at you. If I was mad at you I wouldn't be texting you." I got the same response each time I brought it up.
This is really out of the ordinary for him. He is a big sweetheard and such a gentleman to me when we are together (in person) and he has never acted this way until about a week ago. We've barely even bickered before this past week. I don't understand what changed, because nothing seems to have. And although throughout the week he's been like this over text, he's all normal in person.
I just need some insight in what you think is going on and maybe some advice on how to properly talk to him about it? Thanks a bunch!
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