R.I.P Online sex life

[lovebunnie1212]

wow been in points where our sex life wasn't as active as i would like but thankfully we got back on track but i feel you there but it would be a deal breaker for me if i was told what i couldn't do in my own me time sessions when we weren't together. Its up to you if you abide by that or just don't tell him when you masturbate. I would have to say communication of how you feel is the best alternative

[TwoThree]

Did I mention I can't masturbate either? xD LOL

I gotta turn holy too apparently

I would tenderly and affectionately tell him to go get buggered. I seriously hope you have the backbone to make him understand that this is way out of line and that he's a self-righteous prick.

Ok, sorry, that was a bit harsh. But. Seriously.

[CanadianGirl]

I would tenderly and affectionately tell him to go get buggered. I seriously hope you have the backbone to make him understand that this is way out of line and that he's a self-righteous prick.

Ok, sorry, that was a bit harsh. But. Seriously.

I think that's an appropriate reaction. This whole thing is especially ridiculous considering that having a little "alone time" affects the world in exactly zero ways. I'd have a whole host of problems with this, but just the fact that he's trying to control something so intimately yours... huge warning sign.

[snow]

For all we know the two of them could be in a D/s relationship and he could have requested it from her.
I've been there, nothing wrong with that.

But if that isn't the case, I really do hope he gave you reasons to why it had to stop and quite honestly.. if I was you and it'd not be D/s I'd still have my fun, unless you're fine with not pleasuring yourself.

[twinkle22]

Um why??

[LadyDaemon]

For all we know the two of them could be in a D/s relationship and he could have requested it from her.
I've been there, nothing wrong with that.

But if that isn't the case, I really do hope he gave you reasons to why it had to stop and quite honestly.. if I was you and it'd not be D/s I'd still have my fun, unless you're fine with not pleasuring yourself.

We could probably say it was a D/s relationship IF it wasn't for the fact that she specifically said it was because he was turning "holy". If it wasn't for that I would probably agree.

[TooFarAway]

Thank you everyone for your replies!
And don't worry he's not being controlling! (... we kinda broke our no-sexual-things strike last night unfortunately, yay teenage hormones- ye...we only like lasted 3 days).
He's religious (and me...not so much but I'm Catholic and he's Christian) so he thought abstinence would be better for us, so I agreed to go along x-x (He wanted all sexual activities to be very special when we get married >_<)
It's just so hard to stop cold turkey xD, so I was asking for some tips to get my mind off sex (...Oh gawd maybe I have an addiction...)
Now I don't know what we're going to do now since we technically failed (badly) lolol

[Ejoriah]

A sex drive is a healthy thing to have and no, it's not an addiction. Teenage really IS the time when hormones are all over the place, lol .

If he's that much more religious than you are that has the potential of creating some problems in your relationship. I hope it doesn't for you but I get the vibe that on this one you're kinda just "going along with it" because that's what he asked but you don't seem to want to do it by yourself or for your faith...

[TwoThree]

It's just so hard to stop cold turkey xD, so I was asking for some tips to get my mind off sex (...Oh gawd maybe I have an addiction...)

I'm pretty certain you do not have an addiction. Thinking very often (even constantly) about sex is perfectly normal, whether you are a teenager or not. Anyone who tells you that it isn't has an agenda.

[Dziubka]

You do realize that Catholic is Christian as well, right? The Catholics I know would be seriously pissed if you called them not-Christians

[TooFarAway]

You do realize that Catholic is Christian as well, right? The Catholics I know would be seriously pissed if you called them not-Christians

Catholics and Christians have a good amount of differences. We call ourselves Catholics/Catholic Christians/Roman Catholics, etc. Regardless, we differ from Christians. o-o
I would know because we sometimes have debates on our differences in religion xD

[TooFarAway]

I'm pretty certain you do not have an addiction. Thinking very often (even constantly) about sex is perfectly normal, whether you are a teenager or not. Anyone who tells you that it isn't has an agenda.

Thank goodness xD

[TooFarAway]

A sex drive is a healthy thing to have and no, it's not an addiction. Teenage really IS the time when hormones are all over the place, lol .

If he's that much more religious than you are that has the potential of creating some problems in your relationship. I hope it doesn't for you but I get the vibe that on this one you're kinda just "going along with it" because that's what he asked but you don't seem to want to do it by yourself or for your faith...

Sigh yea I hope it doesn't cause problems. You got the vibe right on point xD

[Moon]

Catholics and Christians have a good amount of differences. We call ourselves Catholics/Catholic Christians/Roman Catholics, etc. Regardless, we differ from Christians. o-o
I would know because we sometimes have debates on our differences in religion xD

Chris·tian (krschn)
adj.
1. Professing belief in Jesus as Christ or following the religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus.
2. Relating to or derived from Jesus or Jesus's teachings.
3. Manifesting the qualities or spirit of Jesus; Christlike.
4. Relating to or characteristic of Christianity or its adherents.
5. Showing a loving concern for others; humane.
n.
1. One who professes belief in Jesus as Christ or follows the religion based on the life and teachings of Jesus.
2. One who lives according to the teachings of Jesus.

Catholics are Christian
I have a pretty good idea what Catholics are, I am a Catholic school survivor. A Christian is anyone who has accepted Jesus Christ as their savior, which Catholics most certainly do. Any other differences in Christian teachings split the denominations, but a Christian is a Christian. My 71 year old mother would slap the shit outta you for calling her unchristian.

[TwoThree]

Catholics and Christians have a good amount of differences. We call ourselves Catholics/Catholic Christians/Roman Catholics, etc. Regardless, we differ from Christians. o-o
I would know because we sometimes have debates on our differences in religion xD

Nope..