ugh felt sad today, just was missing my SO .. this girl i work with met someone 2 yrs ago. LDR they got married after 1 year. And she is moving there soon. I am happy for her. Just felt sad because me and my SO have had so many bumps and walls . Just miss him =( Sometimes its so hard . sometimes even though he isnt here he is with me always. How do you guys cope when you feel sad because you miss your SO and you see other people around you with the people they love wishing it was you and your SO..
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I totally understand how you feel. Being away from my bf is extremely hard. I miss him very much. What I do is keep a line of communication open throughout the day. We talk throughout the day and FaceTime every night and during the day. I also keep a notebook and write in it everyday. Why I love him, if I miss him etc. I feel more connected to him that way too. I throw myself into work and keep myself busy. Also planning our next visit and having a date on the calendar makes it easier. Sometimes I'm just sad. I feel sad and cry if I need to. But I try to focus on the positive and know that he is worth every single mile. That was a long post. haha. Hope it helps. I'm new to the long distance thing myself. Learning as I go!
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well Im not in my 20s anymore lolol we do talk everynight. We fall asleep with our earpieces on. Been with him 7 years !! Life situations held us back. Anyway most of the time Im very happy just was sad today. Thanks !!!!!Comment
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7 years? Wow. That's awesome. I am very new to this whole deal.
I had my first visit about 2 and a half weeks ago. The day I left, I was just a mess. My bf was too! I thought I'd be seeing him this month but due to finances, I won't see him until July. Very disappointing!
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I totally feel for you...But when you and your SO do close the distance, you'll have a really strong relationship because you were able to overcome so many obstacles.
First met: June 2012
Became Committed: June 04, 2012
Entered an LDR: July 01, 2012
Next Visit: October 2013!
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Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.
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I'm still struggling myself and have alot of sad crying days i feel you. If you ever need someone to talk to message me. I havent seen my bf in like 8 months and not sure if i will see him this year so i have alot of sad days sadly and we been together for a year and a half and the finances i understand completely thats kind of our issue right now.
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well its not finances, its his mothers health, job loss, (but working now) my kids , being they are in hs its hard for me to pull them away and move to a new school. I have not seen him in two years!!! LOL funny because it doesnt seem that long. is that weird? We have a unique relationship. We could not imagine ourselves with anyone else. He will come visit soon. Just life got in the way, but we go on. Yes 7 years . He almost moved out here not long after we met, but them his father passed away =( he sold his house and moved in with his mom to help her. anyway long story. All I know is we ned to see each other !!!!!! LDR takes special people. Not everyone can handle it or live it.Comment
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It does suck!! All my friends are couples and I hang out a lot with my friends and their other halves and I may as well be single. But I draw comfort from the fact that when I do see my SO I get to see him for two whole weeks... 14 days... 24/7 day in day out. Most people on see their boyfriends/husbands etc after work and on weekends and even then they usually have other stuff going on! I am very grateful of the fact that although we spend longer apart than we do together when we are together there are no interruptions and we get a hell of a lot more quality time together than some of my friends and their boyfriends!Comment
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I know how you feel! 7 long years.. WoW!
I feel super sad too sometimes especially during some weeks after our meetings..
But we are trying to comunicate loots. whatsapp, skype, viber - even we are sleeping together on viber and such things are helping us <3
I hope everything will be ok betweet us and our boys..
and really there will come time when we live together and it will be million times happier time!
wish you all all the best ^^
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