He is suddenly Lost :(

[ayarusworld]

It started since Saturday. Last time I've heard from him was on Friday night after i finished work. He called me and we talked my job and he supported me, cheer me up. Then we plan to video call on Saturday morning my time. We have 14hrs time difference because he live in SF, California and I live in Indonesia.

So, saturday morning he didn't contact me. I contacted him but no reply, so I went to work. After work, i saw my phone and no message from him. I tried to call him, no answer. So then comes Sunday morning. Tried to call him but after ring once, its automatically goes to voice mail. Until now. His whatsapp and skype not active. I have no idea what should I do. I never think this would happen to me. He didn't email me neither. What should I do?

[kattermole]

Do you know any of his friends or family on Facebook etc? If it's out of character for your SO to disappear, then you could try get in contact with them and see if they know what's up. Perhaps he has lost his phone? IS that his main method of contacting you?

[libelle]

Sorry to hear this Do you have the coordinates of any of his relatives or friends? Phone, email, facebook? You can contact them to see if they have heard of him, or if they can go check up on him ..

[ayarusworld]

I don't know any of his friends and family contact number. I only know his address, phone number and email. He never use his Facebook so it's empty. He usually contact me via whatsapp, phone call or skype. And everyday. He used to email me before but now not anymore. I meant if he lost his phone, he could've sent an email to me from his laptop. Im really worried.

[Karoshi]

I'm so sorry to hear that Maybe, if you know where he works, you could look up on the internet and find e-mail or phone on some of his co-workers or boss and ask them if they don't know what is wrong with him?

[loneliestgirl]

He could have lost his phone or misplaced it. As for the video call, I assume that would have been on his computer and not phone? That is a little strange. Today is Father's day in the U.S and he may be spending time with his father and family.

[Ejoriah]

I'm so sorry to hear that Maybe, if you know where he works, you could look up on the internet and find e-mail or phone on some of his co-workers or boss and ask them if they don't know what is wrong with him?

I would personally suggest NOT doing this. If it turns out that he's fine afterall (sudden family emergency or anything like that) the fact that you involved his workplace won't be seen favorably.

[Karoshi]

I would personally suggest NOT doing this. If it turns out that he's fine afterall (sudden family emergency or anything like that) the fact that you involved his workplace won't be seen favorably.

Ugh, I didn't think about it like that. I agree... Maybe you could do this only if it will last for longer time, like a week or so?

[Chris516]

It started since Saturday. Last time I've heard from him was on Friday night after i finished work. He called me and we talked my job and he supported me, cheer me up. Then we plan to video call on Saturday morning my time. We have 14hrs time difference because he live in SF, California and I live in Indonesia.

So, saturday morning he didn't contact me. I contacted him but no reply, so I went to work. After work, i saw my phone and no message from him. I tried to call him, no answer. So then comes Sunday morning. Tried to call him but after ring once, its automatically goes to voice mail. Until now. His whatsapp and skype not active. I have no idea what should I do. I never think this would happen to me. He didn't email me neither. What should I do?

I sort of know what you are feeling. My SO has not been on her Facebook page in two months. Our Yahoo IM communications have sometimes been as long as two weeks between IM communications. I rarely receive an e-mail from my SO. I am the one initiating phone communications. Yet in all that lack of communication, she still wants' things from me. I feel as lost, as you might be feeling.

[ayarusworld]

The thing is my SO usually contact me every single day. Now he is disappeared without any notice. Im so sad. My SO have a famous nephew and niece. They are the only relatives of him that can be found on internet. Do u think I better contact them and ask about their uncle?

[Chris516]

The thing is my SO usually contact me every single day. Now he is disappeared without any notice. Im so sad. My SO have a famous nephew and niece. They are the only relatives of him that can be found on internet. Do u think I better contact them and ask about their uncle?

Going on personal experience, I would say, give it some more time.

[Karoshi]

I agree with Chris. I know it's hard, but give it more time. I would contact his relatives only if it will last for longer, like a week.

[digitalfever]

I know its hard but I'd give it more time. You don't know whats going on and I don't think waiting a few more days will hurt the situation. Just do things to keep your mind off of it.

[SeeRat]

As posters above said you need to wait some more may be a week or so. If still you dont hear anything from him than go for contacting his relatives.
I hope you get to hear from him soon.

[ayarusworld]

hii.. thank you for ur advices everyone... But I already sent a message to his sister FB. I hope to hear from her soon. I know he won't cheat, the only thing I am worried abt is something happen to him. He supposed to visit his sister on July 4th, so I assume he is in contact w her and hopefully she knows what happen to my SO