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    Getting back to LDR routine after long visit

    Hello,
    as I know, getting back to LDR routine after a visit is hard for everyone. I just came back from visiting my boyfriend for 3 weeks and I it's very hard, and I think everybody feels like that. So can you provide some advices how to overcome this, how to get back to the everyday routine and not to miss your partner very much?
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    The first couple of days you're going to miss your SO a ton, that has never changed for me. Otherwise, stay busy the same way you would when waiting for a visit!


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      #3
      Originally posted by Kristin91 View Post
      The first couple of days you're going to miss your SO a ton, that has never changed for me. Otherwise, stay busy the same way you would when waiting for a visit!
      Totally agree with this. After our first visit, the first few days were so hard! But it does get better



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        #4
        Karoshi, I have not yet mastered this myself. Leaving the one we love is incredibly painful. I know with my gf, we both cry and are sad for a long time but through it all, we keep in contact as much as possible. I agree with Kristin that staying busy is good.

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          #5
          Long visits are so difficult because you get so used to having your SO around! I agree with everyone else, the first few days are the hardest.

          Give yourself some time. In a way, I find letting myself be angry and grumpy about it very liberating. Be patient with yourself. Like everyone else has said, keeping busy can help. But you dont have to be fine immediately. You'll feel better before you know it.

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            #6
            I agree with everyone else here! My boyfriend just left on Tuesday after having visited me for a month
            It's very hard, and the first few days are the worst, but eventually, it will get better. As the above posters said, keep yourself busy. Hang out with friends, family, do some fun activities, etc.
            Hang in there

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              #7
              Thank you all for your support!
              I try to be as busy as possible, luckily I have so much work to do now, so it's not that hard. And I also found out that I need to be in contact as much as possible to avoid the "I miss you" things, but my SO is complete oposite - he wants to have time for himself to get used to that I'm not there anymore. Of course I completely understand that, everybody is different, but it hurts me much more when we don't talk so often as we did before. But I think it's going to be in normal in about a week, it always was
              Thank you again <3

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