Hey guys, I'm not sure if anyone here really knows me or my relationship, so if you have any questions then feel free to ask for details.
I just came back from visiting my SO a few weeks ago. We had a great visit, it was very fun, so that def wasn't the problem.
So Im not sure if this happens to every LD couple out there, but I feel like my SO and I always had something to talk about or could just talk on and on about nothing before we ever met. Sure we had those patches when we wouldn't have too much to say but it would only be for a few days. After our first (amazing) visit, when we went back to our separate lives, it felt like we had nothing to talk about. It was alright after a while, but then after this visit its like being apart we realize that it's hard to talk to each other when we can't spend time with each other in real life. Because being together in real life GIVES us things to talk about instead of just staring at a screen.
Even though we have only officially been dating almost 3 months, we've technically been dating for a year (that's when attraction started and we stopped trying to meet other people) so it isn't like we're quickly getting bored of each other. I'm def not bored with him anyways.
It sucks too because he's in the airforce and they recently put him on "swing shift" so he works from 3pm to nearly 12 am and my schedule is to be awake/school from 9 am to 12 am. He usually won't wake up until 11 am and so we really barely get to talk now. We mostly talk at night but by that time I'm falling asleep and he's trying to relax because he just got off work. So he's online watching videos, not really paying much attention to me like he used to. We both still love each other so much, but life seems to be screwing with us and after the last visit, trying to talk without being with each other in real life seems so difficult/stale.
Idk, thoughts?
I just came back from visiting my SO a few weeks ago. We had a great visit, it was very fun, so that def wasn't the problem.
So Im not sure if this happens to every LD couple out there, but I feel like my SO and I always had something to talk about or could just talk on and on about nothing before we ever met. Sure we had those patches when we wouldn't have too much to say but it would only be for a few days. After our first (amazing) visit, when we went back to our separate lives, it felt like we had nothing to talk about. It was alright after a while, but then after this visit its like being apart we realize that it's hard to talk to each other when we can't spend time with each other in real life. Because being together in real life GIVES us things to talk about instead of just staring at a screen.
Even though we have only officially been dating almost 3 months, we've technically been dating for a year (that's when attraction started and we stopped trying to meet other people) so it isn't like we're quickly getting bored of each other. I'm def not bored with him anyways.
It sucks too because he's in the airforce and they recently put him on "swing shift" so he works from 3pm to nearly 12 am and my schedule is to be awake/school from 9 am to 12 am. He usually won't wake up until 11 am and so we really barely get to talk now. We mostly talk at night but by that time I'm falling asleep and he's trying to relax because he just got off work. So he's online watching videos, not really paying much attention to me like he used to. We both still love each other so much, but life seems to be screwing with us and after the last visit, trying to talk without being with each other in real life seems so difficult/stale.
Idk, thoughts?
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