Any Words of Advice? Support? :/
Hi guys! I'm a newbie and well it's almost 2 months into my LDR. My story: my bf and I met at university and have been together for about a year now. After graduation, both of us have now returned to our respective countries with roughly 1300 miles apart. He's now currently working which involves a bit of travelling around as he is helping his dad's friend's company while I'll be leaving in a week's time to the West to study my master's degree. We do whatsapp but sometimes I feel frustrated and couldn't comprehend how could he be so busy to the point that sometimes he doesn't leave me a whatsapp message at all. I was hoping that in a way, that he'll leave me a morning and night message each day. I mean how hard is it to take out 2 minutes of your time to leave a message? On a plus side, he was the one who suggested to video call each other once a week and he usually is the one who asked for the video call (I guess because I'm pretty jobless at the moment while he's working his butt off). I don't know why but I sometimes feel insecure and although I'm a person who don't usually get jealous, there's one problem that's always in my mind: My bf is a tutor to his boss's daughter who comes from the same country of origin as his but the girl is currently away in Aus for her own degree. I know that they communicate via email, whatsapp and sometimes videocall. I do trust my bf but sometimes my instincts kick in and my mind plays trick: what if this girl gets closer to him? Sigh. I don't know what to do! Although we're sort of too young (both in early 20s) to talk about our future (i.e. closing our distance), I've asked my bf before what does he take this relationship as? He said it's a comfortable and seems long-lasting to him, he wants us to work out, said we can settle down together but cannot gurantee if we will have a future.. which sort of broke my heart. Before graduation, I sort of mentioned to him a few times if he wanted us to break-up? But every time I ask about ending the relationship, he would tell me to try LDR and see if we can work out. I don't know what to think.. any words of advice or support, anyone? Hope to hear some voices as it'll help me ease my mind. Thanks!
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I actually find it easier to talk about the future and what we both want from it. Do you talk about meeting up in the future, could he save some of his money from working to come visit you? You mentioned talking about settling down, in which country is that?
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Well.. he did say he will visit me once he has the money and time. Settling down issues.. we've not properly talked about which country because I'm bonded to work in my own country for a few years and I don't think he'd want to move.. since he love his home.. :/Originally posted by kacie View PostComment
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