Girlfriend going to homecoming.

[Angelolo]

So yea my girlfriend is going to homecoming to Saturday. I am not really sure how to feel about this because I know how it can get during the "the heat of the moment" if she is dancing with another male. Just aggravates me a bit but havent tried to hold her back so far I just said go and have fun, but my feelings dont want her to go. I just don't know what to do.

[haley]

I definitely think you should let her go because that's a huge part of high school. And if she didn't go she would regret it. Just ask who she's going with. If it's a group of girls then you probably don't have much to worry about because she might just dance with them. Next time she brings up homecoming just tell her that you're concerned with other guys touching her or something like that.

[rubydissolution]

I don't think you should "let her go, because she doesn't need your permission to go. She is in High School and its homecoming, she has every right to attend and have a great time. If you trust her there really shouldn't be any issue here. She'll go, she'll dance and she'll come back to you. RELAX!! She shouldn't have to sacrifice being a teenager because you are insecure.

[LadyDaemon]

I don't think you should "let her go, because she doesn't need your permission to go. She is in High School and its homecoming, she has every right to attend and have a great time. If you trust her there really shouldn't be any issue here. She'll go, she'll dance and she'll come back to you. RELAX!! She shouldn't have to sacrifice being a teenager because you are insecure.

This.

Because believe me like haley said above,if you don't let her go she will regret it,and she'll most likely hold you responsible. I know from personal experience because I didn't get to go to my homecoming and I regret it more then I like to admit most times. Just let her go and have fun. Trust is key here.

[emsimes]

I agree with the above posters. I'm sure youre bummed that you can't go with her, but Homecoming is usually a pretty big deal for girls, and I'm sure she would regret it if she didn't go.
You just have to trust her and remember that she is doing this for herself. I know it's hard at times, but you can't always let your emotions get in the way. So just relax, breathe, and remember that she will be fine

[snow]

Not being with your SO while she is going out can be a difficult situation at the beginning of a relationship, but I think you are going about it the right way not making her feel bad that she wants to go.

Trust me, she'd rather have you with her than anyone else.

I am not American so I have no idea how important Homecoming is for teenagers, but if it is a big deal for her then let her go and let her have a good time. Yes, she might dance with another guy, but you trust her right? Things will be fine.

[Black_Halloween]

Excuse me but "Let" should not be in your vocabulary. She is her own person and can do whatever she wants to. Its just a high school dance. You need to trust her or else the relationship will fail.

[Swederica]

So yea my girlfriend is going to homecoming to Saturday. I am not really sure how to feel about this because I know how it can get during the "the heat of the moment" if she is dancing with another male. Just aggravates me a bit but havent tried to hold her back so far I just said go and have fun, but my feelings dont want her to go. I just don't know what to do.

I know how you feel. But as long as she doesn't tell you that she's not going when you ask her, and then proceeds to say yes to another guy who asks her to the dance and then proceeds not to tell you, then you should be fine. That's what happened to me :P

Trust in her

[Kitty Boo]

So yea my girlfriend is going to homecoming to Saturday. I am not really sure how to feel about this because I know how it can get during the "the heat of the moment" if she is dancing with another male. Just aggravates me a bit but havent tried to hold her back so far I just said go and have fun, but my feelings dont want her to go. I just don't know what to do.

I know it'll be hard when you can't be there with her, but you definitely shouldn't hold her back. I know with my S.O, when he couldn't come to Prom with me, I was missing him the whole time. I'm sure that'll be the same with her. No matter who she dances with, no matter how much fun she's having, she'll still be missing you and wishing it was you she was with. So don't you worry about it. She could go chat to guys, she could dance with them, but the most important thing to remember? It's you that she's chosen at the end of the day, and it's you she's returning to at the end of the night.

To make it easier, why not ask her to send you little messages throughout the night? Perhaps even photos? Sure, it won't be the same, but hey, you could feel a little bit more involved. Encourage her to go, encourage her to be happy, because there's nothing better than seeing the one you love enjoying themselves.

[RachelAnne]

Definitely let her go! This is a huge deal for high school girls, it's something she doesn't want to miss. I loved homecoming dances. It wont be that big of a deal, I promise

[Angelolo]

*Quick update*

She is in fact going to homecoming with her friends, but I did however tell her to keep those lips off of guys!

[Ejoriah]

I hope you meant it jokingly. My ex used to say stuff like that to me all the time and it pissed me off to no end that he wouldn't trust me to do that anyway (we were CD).