First argument, he blocked me, need advice

[Zaduma]

Hi! I am new here. I am from Poland, he is from Portugal. I am 30, he is 36. We met online 3 months ago, after 2 weeks he bought a ticket to meet me, he came to visit me, wanted to shorten the distance, we fell in love, spent 2 weeks at my place, after that we were online all the time, skyping, calling, sending gifts, he was very active and for me all the time, asking when will i come... I didn't know how to be in such a relation, I stopped sending him daily pics of me, saying nice words, I became sad because of the distance, I was complaining, I was jealous. He was sweet and patient. But one day his old friend came to him after 3 years, I bet they started talking and he wrote me that things are going bad and maybe everyone goes their own way and I asked to talk on the phone or skype about that. 3 days of silence and after that he blocked me from facebook, gchat and skype. I know he was inviting me millions of times to see him and I was just silent, I can't tell you why. I care about him a lot. I wasn't conscious of my mistakes. What can I do? Looks like he doesn't want to talk anymore. I want t orepair it cause we were real soulmates. But I am a closed person so it made it more difficult. I plan to visit him. Or shall I forget?

[lyonsgirl]

He blocked you because of a fight? Forget him.

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[Mims27]

Him blocking you is very immature and doesn't really show that he cares much. If you really love someone and you know they are going through a hard time, you don't just block them. You talk about it and deal with it. Fights happen. Not once have I blocked my SO or even thought about it. Like Lyonsgirl said, I would forget him.

[Black_Halloween]

I too am hopping on the "forget him" express. He's acting like a child and you need a man!

[temporaryuser]

sounds to me like an ex gf came back into the picture, he blocked her and hooked up with the ex.
things moved very fast for 3 months and you werent comfortable with it. Take him blocking you as a sign that it wasnt meant to be. But dont be asurprised if he comes back wanting to be with you again if him and the ex dont work out

[Rugger]

sounds to me like an ex gf came back into the picture, he blocked her and hooked up with the ex.
things moved very fast for 3 months and you werent comfortable with it. Take him blocking you as a sign that it wasnt meant to be. But dont be asurprised if he comes back wanting to be with you again if him and the ex dont work out

I agree with this. You need a man in your life, not a little boy who acts in such a passive-aggressive manner.