your "first" stories...

[countryrider13]

I love to hear other peoples stories! As I'm going through firsts of my own. What are some memorable firsts for you and your SO...meeting, phone call, saying I love you...and how did you feel?

As for me, we're officially a couple but haven't meet yet. he told me he loved me first and I just melted cause I felt the same way. I've had a couple of long term relationships but have never felt like I do for him.

Another memorable time for me was talking on the phone. I'm a shy person and to top it off hate to talk on the phone so I was really nervous. But it went so well and I love his voice and southern accent!

I'm sure our meeting will be memorable too however I feel so close to him I don't think I'll be as nervous as I otherwise would be.

So lets here what Was memorable for you and why!

[miss_jaclynrae]

Our first encounter will forever and always be my favorite first, as I think it was one of those moments people wait their whole life to experience.
Forgive me if this is long, but I love telling it.

It was a few days before halloween and I was in a new relationship with this VERY handsome and nice guy [like, super model hot]. I happened to need a break that afternoon, so I went to my local Starbucks to read. I got there pretty late, and I walk through the door and BOOM.
I know this is so cheesy, but I can't describe to you what happened when I saw him. It wasn't exactly how he looked [I find him extremely hot, but he is definitely bald and older and not my usual type], but as soon as I saw him these was this pull inside of me to him... it was as if my body KNEW I had to be with him. So I get in line behind him, and I swear, the electricity between us was ridiculous, and we hadn't even acknowledged each other!
He gets a coffee, I get a coffee. We both go and accidentally grab for the sugar at the same time, the tension is KILLING me. I am nervous as all get out, and then he walks outside and I do to.
I sit at my normal spot, put in my headphones and start reading. The whole time, I am aware of the fact that he is sitting on the other sides. I can not tell you how many glances I took while he wasn't looking.
This is where the story TRULY gets awesome though.
He starts pacing. By this point, I am actually/pretending to read my book, he walks past me, I look up and he gives a smile... then he kept walking!
My book is totally not doing it for me anymore, as instead, I sit and pretend to read while he walks past me not once, but 5 times or so! He would walk by, look at me, and then keep walking. I was trying so hard to not just blurt out the obvious. For a full 15 minutes this nonsense went on, and it was so entertaining!
Then though... I looked up and he was gone. I waited about 5 minutes, the Starbucks was closing, and when I realized he had probably left. My heart sank. All I could think about was how I should write a missed connection as soon as I get home. :lol
Instead of leaving though, I stayed a bit longer to read. Then, about 30 minutes late... HE COMES BACK!!!
Yeah, that is right, he went home... and then came back just in case I was still there! ROFLMAO
I see him and he walks by me again, and by this point I sort of want to crack up because this is turning out to be a great story.
He walks to the starbucks [which is closed now] heads toward me, and FINALLY asks "are you waiting for someone?"
I say no and then he goes "Well, I am ******, we should grab coffee sometime."
I told him I would love to and the rest is history.



Now, that super hottie I was dating? I dumped him that night. I know, I know, I am mean. The truth is though, I KNEW. I have no idea how, or what exactly was happening, but there was something about DB that made me need to know him.
The coolest part though, is hearing us tell it together, because his side of the story proves that I wasn't crazy. He said that as soon as I walked in the Starbucks he had this yearn to know who I was. He came back JUST to see if I was there, and it is so cute hearing him talk about how if I hadn't of been there, he would have kept going back in the hopes of seeing me again.


Best night of my life. We had our first date a week later, and it was magnificent. Our second date was the night after, and our third date which was the day after that ended up in a sleepover. After that third date, we spent every second possible together. We went a good few months without ever sleeping apart. I pretty much moved in after a few weeks, and officially got rid of my apartment after almost 4 months.

He is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and our relationship has been everything I have ever dreamed about. He is my best friend, and my world. We have been together a year now and I have to say, things just keep getting better and better, more and more fun. The love we have... I hope that every person experiences it. I am not entirely convinced on the whole "soul mate" situation, but if it does exist, I found mine. We are two peas in a pod and perfect for one another in every way shape and form.

Sorry to be so mushy. I just absolutely LOVE sharing that story.