hi everyone,it's my first post here and i hope you can help me,i love a girl which she is far a part from me,we met once before and each day our love get stronger,i could see in her eyes that she loves me and that make me happy,we talk from we weak up till we fall a sleep,facebook,skype,sms..but we both had probls so we couldnt meet last two years,even with that we understood each other and we continue together,but last month she came and say to me that she don"t love me and she want to end up with me,i stayed talking with her and she accepted,but she is not like before with me and no sweet words or anything,i don't want to lose her and i love her but am confused and i don't know what to do or why she did like that..thanks for listening and i hope you will help me,(PS:we were about meeting soon)
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Originally posted by abdou View PostHi everyone. It's my first post here and I hope you can help me. I love a girl which she is far a part from me. We met once before and each day our love get stronger. I could see in her eyes that she loves me and that make me happy. We talk from we weak up till we fall a sleep, Facebook, Skype, SMS..but we both had problems so we couldn't meet last two years. Even with that we understood each other and we continue together. But last month she came and say to me that she don"t love me and she want to end up with me. I stayed talking with her and she accepted,but she is not like before with me and no sweet words or anything. I don't want to lose her and I love her but am confused and I don't know what to do or why she did like that..thanks for listening and I hope you will help me.(PS:we were about meeting soon)
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after not having seen each other for 2 years, her feelings may well have changed. From 18-20, you go thru a lot of changes, your hopes and dreams change and your life situation changes.
She also could have had life changes, meeting other people etc. Be glad that is honest enough to tell you that her feelings have changed. You can continue talking to her, but i wouldnt press the issue of a relationshipeverything happens for a reason. We may never find out what that reason is/was, but there is a reason.
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Well, she told you she want to end the relationship, right? That's it, even if you still talk, you can't expect her to act like you are still a couple. I personally would advise you to stop talking for some time, just to get used to the feeling you are not together anymore, and then, eventually, you can stay friends. I hope this will help. Good luck to you!
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Are you planning to get her back, and looking for advice on how to do that? You can tell her that you ar confused, ask her if it was something that you did or said... Otherwise, she has told you it is over and you must respect acknowledge that fact that she may not want to back.I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
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I had something similar with my boyfriend...I told him if that's the case he should tell me over cam. He refused. I know I might be wrong, but ask her to tell u face to face, or as face to face as this can get. You can see it in her eyes if it's really true. If she didn0t give you any specific reason, I would do that. I always said, feelings and love doesnt just vanish over night, there must be some 3rd factor involved
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