Its over

[Rachelm920]

I found out last weekend that my now ex SO is not who I thought he was. Not only was he cheating on me the entire time as I sat here devoting my heart to him, he also had created a different Facebook profile so he could chat it up with the women that he was seeing. Unfortunately it took a surprise trip to his place, for me to catch him there at 11pm with another woman. I was labeled a psycho to his friends for coming "uninvited" although he had told me previously that he'd "love" a surprise visit. I guess that was when he wasn't entertaining for the night.

The thing that hurts me the most is the fact that he kept on the charade that he loved me and wanted to close the distance and be with me and that it took me driving 7 hours to find out the truth.

Oh and the reason behind the trip? Because he was acting funny and I KNEW something was going on.

[milaya]

I'm really sorry to hear this, but to be honest it sounds like you're better off without him.
Give yourself time to get over the hurt and in the future I'm sure you'll find a guy who will respect you and devote himself to you.
Wish you all the best.

[Chris516]

I found out last weekend that my now ex SO is not who I thought he was. Not only was he cheating on me the entire time as I sat here devoting my heart to him, he also had created a different Facebook profile so he could chat it up with the women that he was seeing. Unfortunately it took a surprise trip to his place, for me to catch him there at 11pm with another woman. I was labeled a psycho to his friends for coming "uninvited" although he had told me previously that he'd "love" a surprise visit. I guess that was when he wasn't entertaining for the night.

The thing that hurts me the most is the fact that he kept on the charade that he loved me and wanted to close the distance and be with me and that it took me driving 7 hours to find out the truth.

Oh and the reason behind the trip? Because he was acting funny and I KNEW something was going on.

This may sound stupid. But when my (ex)wife(1992-2000) n' I first separated, that is when her 'true colors' started to emerge. Sure I spent two weeks in a psychiatric hospital for severe depression over her leaving. But within six months, it was me preparing to file for divorce, not her. She begged me not to. So I waited another two years. In that time, I found out that she had never taken her marriage vows in their entirety, seriously. I forgave her when she cheated on me while we were engaged. I forgave her when she almost let my die as a result of a seizure. For me, what made the decision for me to divorce her, easy. It was when she had told me she had always wanted my physical health problems "to just go away" that signed the divorce papers.

[Freebird]

So sorry to hear this. Just know that you are now free of a person who DOES NOT deserve you.

[differentcountries]

good thing you acted on your instincts and went there. Best wishes

[Ejoriah]

Wow, I'm so sorry you had to find out that way. At least you know his true colors now. Hugs to you.

[Assad]

Sucks to hear that...

Be happy u found out about this although and didn't actually end up in the end with a guy like that...
Whatever u do, keep yourself busy enjoying the things u loved to do before u had met this douchebag...

"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad.
Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too."
Will Smith

Stay positive and best of luck!
Assad

[Deleted]

I'm sorry love. Chin up, look for the good things in life, give yourself time to heal. If you need anyone to talk to, I'm here.

[Yaaamiii]

I'm so sorry to hear that. :/ You're better off without him. The one who truly loves you wouldn't cheat >.<

[moonsong]

Im sorry to hear
You deserve better than that and you are better off without him

[Kristin91]

I'm so sorry this happened to you, but it sounds like you're better off without him! Take some time for yourself

[.:*Shaunna*:.]

I'm really sorry you had to find out the way you did I dont think its fair for his friends to label you a psycho especially since it was him who was doing something wrong.