Never in my Life Did I Expect to be Posting This

[loveknowsnodistance27]

Well, unfortunately, Anthony and I have broken up. I think it was a long time coming and things have been pretty rocky for awhile now. I can't even believe that happened. He and I mutually decided this was for the best and are still remaining best friends. After the decision was made, we shared some laughs like old times. We've both decided to take time for ourselves to be single and neither of us plan on dating for quite awhile. I am still hoping maybe one day we will end up together, but nobody ever really knows. All we know is we will be in each other's lives forever in some way, since we have such a long history together. This was the man I saw myself marrying. I am in shock right now and my heart is shattered, but it needed to be done. I still love him and we both care about each other very much, so fortunately we can be friends. I will definitely be staying around here because you guys are like family to me. I'm glad we both can now focus on our school programs and no longer worry about this too, but I will miss him so much. We plan on staying in regular contact with each other though, so I hope around Christmas we can spend a little time together when he is home again. I keep having moments where I am fine and moments where I fall apart crying. But, I know time will heal everything. It just really sucks. =[

[kria]

I'm so sorry! I wish you the best!

[Zephii]

What? o.o I totally didn't expect that, I can't really imagine you two as not a couple, but I'm glad you're taking the pressure off yourselves for a while. I'm always here if you need to talk lovely xx

[Deleted]

I'm so sorry this happened to you, Jen. You are one of the strongest people I know, though, and I know you can get through this. Keep holding in there. As Zephii said, we're here for you.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

What? o.o I totally didn't expect that, I can't really imagine you two as not a couple, but I'm glad you're taking the pressure off yourselves for a while. I'm always here if you need to talk lovely xx

Thanks Zephii! I know you are here. I hope to god that maybe one day, we will be able to be together again. I've seen stranger things happen. But, for now, this is how it has to be and I think we'll probably be more focused if it is this way.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

Thanks guys, I am still really shocked. I felt like this was coming but I was too afraid to say it. I'm glad we waited to do this in person though instead of on the phone. It feels pretty crummy, but I am so glad we are still best friends.

[dglynn77]

I am soooooo sorry to hear this. Lots of hugs to you! You know we are all here for you!!!

[Dezface]

Wow I'm really sorry I'm glad you'll be sticking around LFAD .

[mllebamako]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself.

[emsimes]

I'm so sorry to hear this
Take care of yourself and just remember that things will get better.
We're here if you need anything

[Yaaamiii]

Aw gee, I'm so sorry to hear that :/. Take care of yourself. I'm glad to know you're understanding of the situation.

[abna1]

Wow, am so sorry ! Wishing you all the best, whatever happens. Take care of yourself.

[OperaDiva]

I am very sorry you are going through this. Break ups are very hard, no matter the reason for them. What concerns me in your posts is that I am a firm a believer that "staying friends" is not a good idea. You need time to heal and to get over the relationship. Please read this - https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/the...eak-up-series/

Best of luck

[TwoThree]

I'm sorry :/

Are you sure that staying in touch is a good idea, though? Maybe you need some time for yourself.

Take care.

[MissButterfly]

Oh Jen, I'm so sorry to hear that... Especially after our email exchanges for my research I really didn't see this coming. Take care of yourself and we're all here if you need us!