Never in my Life Did I Expect to be Posting This

[Tooki]

Sorry to hear bud. I wish you well in your future endeavours!

[Kiyama]

I'm so sorry to read this
Take good care of yourself *hugs*

[Safihre]

Ohw wow....... Another breakup here on LFAD? Not expecting that.. Feel so sorry for you



But I have to ask: what happened? Throughout your posts I never read a hint of problems, or did I just miss those posts? Didn't expect it!

[milaya]

Didn't expect this.
So many break-ups lately.
I'm very sorry to hear this and I do wish you the best. I'm glad to hear that you will still come around here.

[lucybelle]

Sorry to hear this

I agree with 23, I think maybe having some time apart and NOT being friends for a while is a good idea. But you know you better than I do. Best wishes.

[lyonsgirl]

Sorry, hun.

I know you still love him and care about him a lot, but, I gotta go with LB & 23 - at least for a little while. I know you don't want to hear this, but i blogged about this idiot, R, that I dated for over 3 years. He turned into a huge ass-hat over time and I stopped talking to him back in like, June or something. I sent him an email or two in the over the last month, but nothing more. I'm not suggesting it needs to be a permanent "no contact", but you need time for you. And without him. You know where to find me.

[princessmaria]

This season and break ups...

I'm sorry this happened. It's a good thing that you guys didn't end on a sour note. Go easy on yourself, give yourself time to grieve and then move on. I wish you the absolute best.

[chizatlauren]

To be honest, my first expression was "wait, what?".
I really didn't expect it dear. I'm sorry for what happened, but you know you deserve to be happy. We're all here for you... And i hope you'll find healing.

Just a thought... When my ex-SO and i broke up, we still kept in touch and we're still good friends up to this day even if i am already in love with someone else. So I understand if you consider to still be friends with your SO. Just always guard your heart from further damage. We love you!

[Kristin91]

Sending a huge

I am so sorry Jen. I never expected to hear this

[temporaryuser]

you are both young, and extremely busy. Put you time and hearts into finishing school. That should be priority right now. it will help you get thru this. Time for yourself, your family and your friends.
Because you chose to end things before the relationship got ugly, bodes well for the future. Dont stress about the friendship between you two. True friends can go a long time without talking and get back together like it was yeasterday.

[blankita719]

Big hugs Jen. I am so sorry to see this. I know it's been rough and missing him was causing you lots of stress. Do what you need to do. I would also suggest a small breather from one another. It's fine if you want to be friends in the long run, but in the beginning I think you need to re-focus on yourself for a little bit. I'm a message away if you need anything at all.

[loveknowsnodistance27]

Thanks all. I am feeling relieved that the stress is gone now. I was very stressed about this for awhile. I know many say that they didn't see this coming, but I did...for awhile I had gone back and forth, and apparently Anthony had as well. I am glad we're on the same page and that it ended so civilly. We definitely need time for ourselves to focus on school and taking care of us as individuals. My plan is to do just that. In time, we will stay in contact because we've been best friends for 14 years, so we're not just going to let that go to waste. I know we can be friends and even though we need some time apart, will one day be able to stay in touch as friends. I was very quiet about our problems here, because I didn't want to put it out there and I was afraid. I know that keeping it to myself and talking to a few friends about it was not healthy, but now I feel the stress has disappeared. I am so glad to have such amazing friends like you guys to help me through this. I feel like I am doing pretty well so far, since I wasn't totally blindsided by it. It will take a long time to heal, but I know I will in time feel better.

[temporaryuser]

you have a good attitude. Sometimes, when it is coming and you realize it, it gives you time to accept it before it actually happens. Stay positive, learn from your experiences. keep growing as a person.

[LadyDaemon]

I'm sorry this happened hon. Like many others I didn't see it coming either. But,I wish you luck and healing during this time. Please be kind to yourself .

May I also suggest a song for this? I know it's kinda corny,but it was a song that helped me a lot during a couple of my worst break-ups. It's by Leona Lewis and it's called Better In Time. Listen to it,I think it may help.

[Rugger]

I'm so sorry to hear this.