I can't keep them both! How to decide between two great LDR guys!!!

[Samanthabear]

Thanks for adding the poll....what a great idea WOW I didn't know things were so obvious but it seems like the odds are definitely leaning towards guy #2.....

[Samanthabear]

Also, thanks everyone for the advice about slowing down guy #2. Its hard! We both really clicked right away, I have never dated/gotten to know anyone in the military so its uncharted territory for me! I know alot of ppl on LFD have significant others in the military I never thought it might be a factor in him wanting to commit so soon. Any other advice on the topic is most welcome....you guys rock!

[MTK]

You should be with the one who makes you feel loved through and through and wouldn't change the way you are.
Also you shouldn't start a relationship with either of these guys if you don't feel like you are ready and aren't sure if you have or will develop feelings for them.
I won't suggest who you should pick as that decision is completely up to you and i am sure that you know a lot more about these guys then we do and therefore will make the right deciscion for yourself.
Give yourself some time to think about it, if you can imagine a life with either of these guys, make pros and cons if you have too and after you've done that i am sure the choice will be a lot easier. =)

[Samanthabear]

Thanks all for the help and advice and the votes on the poll. It will definitely give me lots to think about....sometimes something that is really obvious can get cloudy when you're in the middle of it. Once again thanks all for the insight!!!!