Severely Anxious Over FB Interactions...

[Freebird]

Thanks for the responses! And I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets like this.

Update: I completely missed your newest post. I'm glad you at least got to mention it to him. That girl is highly inappropriate but so far, it seems your man is glued to you and just you. I don't know why he wouldn't change his relationship status. Do any of his family or friends know about you as a couple?

To be honest, I have no clue. I don't know if any of his family or friends know about us as a couple. My close family members and friends do.

[BabyGund]

On my FB I have that I am in a relationship, but no names are listed. On his, he has no relationship status at all. I wish he would put something at least, but his reason for not is the same reason I have for not putting a name: privacy. Too many nosy friends and family!

When I was married to my ex, I never put my relationship status on FB. Honestly, I wasn't and I'm still not trustful of what Facebook does with that data. I very rarely post on my FB account, and the only reason I use it now is because he and I poke each other all day on it. Our way of saying "I love you and I'm thinking about you" when we're busy at work.

[itsjen516]

Thanks for your replies everyone.

I couldn't help myself and made a snarky joke about it. Without even saying the girl's name, he knew who I was talking about. Our conversation didn't last long, but I do feel a little better now that I've brought it up and acknowledged it. So now he knows I have my eye on her (I say that in jest... well kinda- ha!)!

Some of her comments include, "handsome!" and "cute" in response to photos. A few times she's written "hey, how're you". When we first got in a relationship, a girl posted if he was going to go out. He didn't respond back to either of those girl's comments.

On my FB I have that I am in a relationship, but no names are listed. On his, he has no relationship status at all. I wish he would put something at least, but his reason for not is the same reason I have for not putting a name: privacy. Too many nosy friends and family!



...I must say I completely agree. I don't know what's going on. Hopefully and probably it's nothing. But the childish jealous streak in me can't help but to wonder if there are any conversations going on in the background. I don't think this is a good quality to have, but I guess I can't completely help it.

Tbh that would really annoy me even more with the cute and handsom comments. He may not even know or see anything wrong but you should really tell him exactly how you feel.
Like for ex down at Disney back when me and my fiancé were still only dating he hung out with this girl and he saw nothing wrong with it and didn't even think of it. I played it off like nothing even thought it was really bothering me and all day he had also ignored my text.
When I finally herd from him that night in was like Soo did you have a good time and he was like ya ! Blah blah blah
That's when I clamy told him "I'm sorry but to be honest it kind of bothers that you hung out alone with a girl I know I trust you but I can't help but be bothered by it" he quickly said sorry and said he hadn't even noticed how bad it looked. He said it was something he didn't even think about since I'm so special to him that even hanging out with an other girl means Nothing. It felt a lot better when I was honest I coudnt just let this eat me up inside
So please do the same just be honest and not in a joking way. Like be nice but do express your feelings

[stormy]

Thanks for the responses! And I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets like this.



To be honest, I have no clue. I don't know if any of his family or friends know about us as a couple. My close family members and friends do.

I am unsure as to what your SO's reason is but I know that I have no status at all there. I haven't for sometime. Really I just don't want people in my business in that way. I also do not want to have to explain to hundreds of people that my relationship did not work out (of course I hope that does not happen but you never know what the future will hold). I have thought about it in this case because I feel very strongly about him, we will see.
Also, sometimes it is better for people such as this girl to not know that he is in a relationship because for some people that only shows that he is an even better ideal partner... for them.