i want to know it's common or weird

[okapi]

My SO is having business trip
He haven't tell me which cities he would go and how long it will be

Is it common for that?? He always like that, like just tell me a day before he goes

And I don't have much news from him in this week, he just sent me a email and said can't get online

How often u guys contact with yr SO??

[annamorgan]

He'll probably be very busy on his business trip, since it's business and all, but just be patient, he'll have time to get in contact with you at least sometime.

[LadyMarchHare]

Some people are forgetful, don't think about it until the last minute, or don't think it's important enough to say sometimes. It's a normal thing. If it bothers you try asking if he could give you more warning if he can since sometimes things happen last minute.

Me, I don't get to talk to my guy a lot because of his job and for 3 weeks I heard nothing because his mom had a diabetic episode and he went home to be with her and ended up miserable due to his mom being a butt and her boyfriend harassing him. I wasn't told any of this until pretty much after the fact but it's better than not knowing at all. I'm used to going weeks without a peep.

[noodle]

I have experienced the same but yet if he's super busy he would find time to say where and how long it'll take. I understand your concerns.
Maybe just ask him why he never tells you.

[Silviar]

I think it depends on a lot of things. If me or my SO goes on a trip, we always give details. However, my dad and stepmom go on a LOT of business trips, and they never give any details. You basically have to dig. It's probably normal for him. You could always email him and ask, or talk to him when he gets back/ask him when he gets back.

A lot of business trips include a lot of after work socializing as well, so he could be totally packed.

[JoMarie]

It depends. Is his job so demanding that he is always thinking about other things? Is he just a forgetful person? There are a lot of reasons why he could be telling you last minute and not keeping great contact. Consider his situation before you jump to any conclusions

[MTK]

That depends on him as a person, as other have asked is he very forgetful? If so then you shouldn't really read further into it. But if it is something that has gotten progressively worse throughout your relationship then prehaps there is another reason behind it.
If he only knows a day before he goes what locations he is headed too then there isn't much to do about it but if it something he knows days maybe even weeks in advance you will have to sit him down and have a conversation about being informed more then a day in advance.

I talk with my SO pretty much every day and i tell her in advance if i will be busy our out of town so she won't have to worry that she is not hearing from me and vice versa.

[okapi]

yes, it's true.

I feel much better abt that now, after listen all u guys comments.

as i do think he properly don't think that is important rather and he sounds like he just knows many things lately (his works).

sometimes, i really don't want to tell others (my fds) abt me and my SO, I try to skip this topic as i felt they don't really understand what's going on with us, but they just gossip want to know how's our things..... and mostly with negative feedback
I really want to say none of yr business to them..... it sucks

[folclor]

I agree that you should calm down a bit. ^^; Business trips have little time for talking to others. I know when my mom goes on them she's usually extremely busy and she might be able to call us one night of it or something. I don't think there's much to worry or freak about, just as long as you have some communication ^^ but if it really bothers you that much, bring it up next time y'all talk.

[okapi]

is it i should open up another thread ??? as i have some following want to add up

what my plan is i should leave my place and go to his place around the end of this yr, and once i told him abt that, he asks me hold it and don't quit my job as he might need to work in my place for a short term, and i really think this is awesome thing.
but my fd question is that he don't want me move to his place and might have some secrets behind (like he is married or whatever)

OMG... i told her as ppl can cheat on others even they live in the same place or same house, rite ??

I said I trust him and she see me as a fool.
gosh.... that's why i hate to tell any with her

[MTK]

You should tell him if it is important to you.

And don't let people badmouth your relationship and if necessary you should just tell them to mind their own business. If you don't feel comfortable with that, you always have this forum with understanding people that knows what you are going through =)

[Jovan]

My SO are often traveling. She will go to German soon for 10 days. Most are for business trip purpose. She will inform me earlier. I don't like when she's going and we'll fight about that. Every country she travel, she'll get a number so that we can texting. Usually i will call her and accompany her while she's in the hotel.
We re together all the time. Online call during working hours, while at home, We will call each other wherever we are and we spend a lot of money.

I ve been in your situation before. I know exactly what you feel. He must be busy with his business since thats the reason he travel. And it's good, he still send you an email. That means he think of you. Just be patient.

[paulawriteslove]

I think that you should talk to him and tell him how you're feeling. Tell him exactly what you told us.