After just reading a few blogs about people trying to close their distance and previously reading threads of the first meeting etc I have noticed that mostly it's the girl/woman who basically does the first step and goes to see him.
Seeing my self in the situation that I want to go see my SO and that I basically don't care that I'd be the first one, but that my parents (especially dad) insist on him coming over first and mentionin reasons like: he'd proove he really loves you and we could then start to respect him since he's here and introduced himself.
So whats the deal?
Does he have to be a gentleman and come visit me first?
Or may I take the chance and be a lady and do the first step?
What's your opinion bout this? And if you have closed the distance/visited your SO etc how did you decide who will be the one movin or comin to visit the other one first?
I personally thing that nowadays, in the year 2010, it's normal to have a LDR (even if you've never met your SO) and that distance doesnt matter anymore, thanks to Skype and cheaper flights. And also I think its not a big deal anymore if the women do the big step. Our world has modernized hasnt it?
Seeing my self in the situation that I want to go see my SO and that I basically don't care that I'd be the first one, but that my parents (especially dad) insist on him coming over first and mentionin reasons like: he'd proove he really loves you and we could then start to respect him since he's here and introduced himself.
So whats the deal?
Does he have to be a gentleman and come visit me first?
Or may I take the chance and be a lady and do the first step?
What's your opinion bout this? And if you have closed the distance/visited your SO etc how did you decide who will be the one movin or comin to visit the other one first?
I personally thing that nowadays, in the year 2010, it's normal to have a LDR (even if you've never met your SO) and that distance doesnt matter anymore, thanks to Skype and cheaper flights. And also I think its not a big deal anymore if the women do the big step. Our world has modernized hasnt it?
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