my boyfriend just moved to his home town in Missouri a week ago and we have been fighting since he left. I have been trying my best not to fight with him but he has been fighting the littlest things to fight about. is there a way that would stop or is that just a thing couples go through?
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What are you fighting about? You both need to stop talking things too seriously., if you don't hear from them don't get mad, just be patient. did you misinterpret something they said wrong? accept the apology and move on -
You have got to learn how to calm yourself and him down. Ugly fighting over small matters is destruktive. Every time something bad happens between you, you need at least 5 good things. So get good on the good things. Plenty of tips on this site on how to play nice.I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
- Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"
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It would help to know what you are fighting about. But if my SO was constantly picking a fight, I would let him know that he could call me when he has cooled down and could speak to me without fighting.
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You both have to remember, this is a huge adjustment. Especially since it sounds like you have been CD (close distance) and now going LD. Don't sweat the small stuff.
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I've been having the same problem. Though the fights me and my SO were having were due to miscommunications. Here's my thread with some great advice: https://members.lovingfromadistance....en-They-Happen
And this video is really good: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVogrnAO28EComment
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He is probably struggling with leaving you and hates it. His fighting is due to his frustration. Guys like to fix things, and he doesn't like causing the pain. I'm sure it will only take time. Try to support him and refuse for him to drag you into a fight.Comment
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