I don't remember our "anniversary" dates....?

[rk1191]

I don't remember when we first met, all I remember it was sometime in August 2008. and I don't remember when we became official, sometime in Early May 2009..........I know the date I kissed him for the first time. March 25, 2010 (I think..)

Does it really matter if I remember these dates? Sometimes I feel terrible that we never kept track of when, but we weren't thinking about it, we were just living our lives and now we don't remember. xD

[Rosebud]

Nah, I don't think you should feel too bad about it. To be honest I don't remember when my bf and I officially started dating either, though I DO remember the date of the very first time he told me he loved me so we use that now as our official date of when to celebrate anniversaries and such (and I don't even remember when I first told him I loved him either xD it was sometime after his, I know, but I have no clue when...)

If you want a specific date to use, why not just us March 25th since it still has some very important meaning to you?

[Casper]

I don't think it really matters, but if you guys want a date to celebrate your anniversary, you and your SO could always settle on a specific date around one of those months.

I probably wouldn't have remembered my the exact date we became official, but lucky for me my SO wrote it down :]

[paulawriteslove]

The dates don't really matter

[XX, Lexi]

I'm with the majority. The exact date doesn't matter. Celebrate on what you and your SO agree on =]

[hellojamie]

Not at all. My SO and I got together and didn't ever really make a big deal about it. He knew he was moving and he did NOT want to get with a local girl, but of course that's exactly what happened. Anyway, I never stopped to keep track of dates. Neither of us could really remember the date, but I do remember that on Valentine's weekend, I couldn't be with him because I was acting in a dinner show both nights of that weekend. He surprised me by coming to the show and bringing me flowers. So that's what we count as our anniversary- just Valentine's day because it's easy.

[LadyMarchHare]

I think someone on here celebrates the entire month they knew they met their SO in. General timeframes are good, and that's if you want to make a big deal from it.

The only reason I remember is I have AIM IM archives and we were using AIM when he asked me and reading through the archives enough I can tell you the hour the specific question was asked and the hour it was official along with the day he told me he loved me and so on. I'm weird.

[Darth_Taco]

Don't worry, Enrique hardly remembers my birthday much less any anniversary dates xD. I'm creepy though, I remember almost everything except the first time we had sex. I don't know why that's the only one I don't remember. I know it was September 2008... Screw it. I only remember because I just remember numbers and dates really easily. Funny since I cannot remember names to save my life. Took me forever to memorize Enrique's full name.

Anyway, no big deal. Just go with what you two want :P.

[maja]

no it doesnt matter at all!
a lot of my friends ALWAYS forget their anniversary dates and it really doesnt matter, its not like it changes anything of your love

[hellojamie]

You just can't get mad at him for forgetting your anniversary if you can't remember it either.

[nicole]

dates don't matter, if you've got a general month, why not just pick a date then if you want to celebrate? I only knew the day we first met- halloween, and I had to go back and check when our first date was about 8 months into our relationship.

[BoogleBee]

We remembered the day we started typing to each other, but we could never remembered the day we had decided to be girlfriends. We each said it through recordings so we had to go back through our recordings to find the ones where we made ourselves offical to find out what our anniversary was, and we didn't work out it was the 30th of november until we were over 3 months into our relationship, hehe. We were going to just pick a random day if we weren't able to work it out. So I think if you just choose a day to celebrate thats all that matters

[Caitlin2009]

lol its alright i dont remember the exact date me and Denise first told each other how much we loved each other i know it was around winter time but the exact date i havent a clue so your not alone with that

[milaya]

I'm not good with dates. Neither is my SO.
Which is why we thought it would be fun to get married on 11/11/11, so we had no problems remembering the date.
The only reason why I can remember our anniversary was because we met while I was traveling, where I kept a travel journal.
So I know we met on the March 6th, because that's the day I arrived in Japan. (and became a homestay student in his parents' house)
Then when I had to decide our anniversary I decided on the day of our first kiss, which was two weeks later.

But, don't think dates is such a big deal. At least not for me.

[Silviar]

We never had an official date of when we got together; we finally settled on the first time I called him my boyfriend and he called me his girlfriend, which is September 17th. XD