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    #61
    Originally posted by Luc View Post
    Guys I know it only has been 5 days since she and I completely stopped talking, but I have to say that I'm already starting to feel anxious about all this. It just doesn't feel right to me. I get that she wanted space and I gave her that space, but 5 days of completely absolutely zero communication just doesn't feel right to me. I just don't see how this would fix anything...

    On top of all that I notice she is on Guild Wars 2 a lot these past 5 days, more so than usual. I don't play a lot myself right now, but when I do log on, I always see her online as well. I'm not sure if playing GW2 with her friends is her way of sorting things out, but I find it weird.

    Am I over thinking this? Am I looking too deep into this? What feeling do you guys get from this?
    She wants some space so give it to her, or you might lose her for good. I think you might really want to watch that movie. " He's just not that into you". It goes both ways. I will say the book is better. The gist of it is, if someone loves you enough, they make time for you. Sorry for your pain.
    "Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficult still, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. "
    Benjamin Franklin

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      #62
      Well good news, she contacted me today. At first we started to fight and argue again, but I took a step back and tried to make her aware of what was happening here, and what has become of us. I asked her; "How are we supposed to fix anything like this? Please, let us calm down and talk about this like two mature human beings. We can do this. But we need to be on the same team, not the opposing teams. I'm not your enemy, I'm your boyfriend, I'm with you, not against you."

      Things then calmed down and we had a good talk. We ironed out most of our issues and everything seems to be fine again now. The conversation ended in a happy way where we both talked about our day to day stuff and then we had some good laughs about funny memories. We then played some Guild Wars 2 together and then I went offline to go to bed.


      I can't describe how happy I feel now. This is such a relief.

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        #63
        The team metaphor is a good one. Kudos to the both of you for straightening things out. It must feel really good
        I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
        - Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"



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